Would you still marry a lady who has had sex before marriage? Opinions please.What is your opinion on ladies who have sex before marriage?
In todays day and age holding out having sex before marriage is almost impossible you need such strong will power but i have alot of respect for women who can hold out and i guess it would be special for the guy knowing that they waited all there lives for you =)What is your opinion on ladies who have sex before marriage?
well i think men could, but its like this apples are good (at least i think so) but if someone took a bite out of it already u don't really want anything to do with it because u already think that'ss gross! 
I look at it the same way if was important enough to someone for them to wait for me it would be worth it! and its like that other girl said it shows they had more power to them! 
A lot of the times if they had sexul relationships before marriage there becomes some issues in it(some more then others) because of very many reasons: Guilt, they weren't the only one, (maybe they didn't meet up to the other person's stadards), they have bad experences with anything to do with that! 
Even though plp play it off as a casual thing its something thats suppose to be treasured and speacial!!
I woudn't. I'm not a religios guy, i like to know what religion has to say about stuff and why. so if you study it a little, you see that it makes sense in a way. I would like my future wife to have had sex only with me, my reason is that, what if she experienced someone alot better than me before, it could happen. what if I cant perform as well as the guys before me? she will always have that guy ( and the sex she's had with him ) in the back of her mind. I will never be able to make that vanish. another thing, a woman who is strong enough to hold herself back from sex before marriage, is a STRONG woman, she will be able to resist anything in the future to come in the marriage, she will be loyal to her husband, her kids, her life. Trust me, i'm not just talking crap.
I'm not religious so if I was a guy then yeah I would I don't see a problem with having sex with someone that you are dating. However I wouldn't marry a girl who had a reputation of being a **** because she's obviously got no self respect so she's not going to have any respect for anyone else particularly you 
I'm certain that most men would. Really, most women have sex before marriage--it's just a fact.  As long as you can talk openly about it, I don't think most would consider it a big problem, though it certainly isn't the nicest thing to hear.  In this day and age though, it's just sort of expected.
IMO,  girls  who  have  sex  b/f  marriage  have  little  ';value';  for  themselves  and  are  quite  uninformed  about  casual  sex.  They  are  looking  for  intimacy  with  whatever  guy  who   looks  her  way  and  she  will  do  almost  anything  to  get  him  to  notice  her.  She  thinks  giving  him  free  sex  is  the  secret  to  winning  him.  She  has  very  poor  judgment.  Sex  will  not  ';hold';  a  guy.  There  is  so  much  that  she  doesn't  know  that  you  could  write  a  book  about  it.  But  she  wouldn't  read  it.  
Living  together  is  not  assurance  that  you  will  eventually  get  married,  even  if  you  are  already  engaged  to  marry.  Studies,  polls,  and  surveys  show  that  couples  who  wait  until  after  marriage  to  have  sex  are  much  happier,  and  trust  each  other  more  easily.  
Usually  if  a  guy  genuinely  loves  a  girl,  he  will  marry  her  whether  or  not  she  is  a  virgin,  but  he  always  prefers  a  virgin.  
i am a female, and to be honest i think it just depends on the person and their own thoughts and usually their religion.
i dont care. she needs to be honest with me once we are together. (married)
I wouldn't ... No way.
I'm a girl, 17, and not a virgin. I think it's only a problem when it comes to religion to have had sex before marriage. But religions are accepting of all people, or so they say so, right?
Would you buy a car without test driving it first?
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