Saturday, January 23, 2010

What are some things you can do with your partner during an engagement to prepare for marriage?

I have a long engagement with my sweetie and the two of us want to take advantage of right now to not focus as much on preparations for the marriage rather than the wedding itself, so what are some things you would wish or you have heard others say they wished they had done to help their marriage? What are somethings you have done?What are some things you can do with your partner during an engagement to prepare for marriage?
Before i got married, we had to go through 4 hours of premarital counseling, as required by the state we were married in. It helped us out a lot. We did small tests to figure out which of us was more emotional, more likely to suppress anger and then blow up later, etc. We learned a lot about each other and it was a good experience. I would also say, take this time to enjoy each other, and do not give up on your hobbies and alone time, it will be tempting to do that to spend more time together, but it is very good for you to have time alone and to yourselves. And good for you for wanting to focus on marriage, not the wedding. try not to stress too much about anything, and good luck!What are some things you can do with your partner during an engagement to prepare for marriage?
I hear they have some awesome premarital counseling that you can do for an entire weekend. Basically you go to a hotel for Sat %26amp; Sun, and all day you go to different seminars that help you prepare for being married.





I personally say live together. You'll learn more about each other in the 1st year of living together than you could ever know just dating. But I understand a lot of people are against living together before marriage for religious reasons.
Congrats on your engagement! I am also engaged to my fiance and will be getting married August 2009. What we are doing to help our marriage out is going to be doing some pre marital counseling from my minister of the church that I am a member of.Be sure to have a lot of communication and don't go to bed angry. Just be excited and have fun planning it and also spend time laughing to ease the stress a little bit.
My fiance and I took the ';VOW'; class and we both thoroughly enjoyed it. Not only did we learn more about each other but we had 1 whole hour each week to set aside to just talk about our relationship all by its self. Our counselor showed us many ways to open up to one another and great problem solving techniques. I would recommend the class to anyone.
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