Thursday, January 21, 2010

What is the core strength of a lifetime happy marriage?

Couples starting out with an arranged or love marriage still face strong disagreement and conflicts. What is the essential ingredient to keep a marriage untied and content?What is the core strength of a lifetime happy marriage?
Though marriage is a unity of two persons, to make it successful, there has to be only ONE THINKING MIND. This is often expressed as COMPATABILITY. ONE THINKING MIND does not mean abject surrender of one's individuality to the other. An ideal spouse is one who gives up his/her individuality for the sake of marital peace while an exceedingly idle spouse is the other one who does not let the other spouse lose his/her individuality. At any time only one sword fits into the sheath. It is the law of nature.What is the core strength of a lifetime happy marriage?
Respect, love, understanding, communication. With EACH OTHER. Most often, couples in arranged marriages bring their folks in, or the folks just come in, and it ruins it all. But then, a lot of the time, that maybe because the couple just doesn't want to deal with each other so they give up the reins to their folks.
Keep one thing in mind that the couple are couple because there is something in them for why they are with each other, why they are marry, so try to know this and find the solution of every problem with full support and understandings. Not argue with each other on any topic and try to find out the right alternative.
it cannot always be content, but the one ingredient required to keeping it together is... not quitting.





same ingredient for inventing a light bulb, or building a business, winning a war, etc. you must both be completely tenacious in the face of unknown difficulty.





';we shall go on to the end....we shall never surrender'; - winston churchill; june 4, 1940
be respectful to the sacred bond. respect the feeling of other.love her/him .understand fully your partner. never pain other by words or deeds.be honest. true relationship will never deteriorate.be a listener by shedding Ego.never command.show care and affection, in turn you also will be loved and happily can lead a good married life. try these guidelines. marriage will not find such bad situations
Knowing that there will be a lot of good and bad. Not giving up. always giving 100%. This will make it work, unless the other is not trying a t all.Some days you can hardly stand each other believe me . I been married 20 years.
Why we are loosing real feeling of love, you will get answer from your behaviour. We are not loyal for each other, all things going mechanical, then why we are expecting joy and pleasure from love. Now we are get frustration from love relationships because we are loosing its true essence.





Sharad Pant
Love,respect,harmony,mutual understanding,behavior ti each other.First select right person to be make life partner.
The love %26amp; the trust will always keep the married life to smooth.


The couple should respect each other %26amp; should be devoted to each other.
Mutual respect, communication and commitment. 38 years last Friday.
love, trust, respect, compassion %26amp; compatibility....
Communication and LOVE
RESPECT.
Love+trust+respect+good jobs+good sex life= happy life
Trust, if you don't have anything.

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