Saturday, January 23, 2010

How does a person get out of a bad marriage when they do not have enough money to go live on thier own?

Plus, my name is on the current lease and would not that make me responsible for the rent even if I am not here?How does a person get out of a bad marriage when they do not have enough money to go live on thier own?
You can get out of a bad marriage for $0 by transforming it into a good marriage. You can make your marriage every bit as good as you both want and choose to make it.How does a person get out of a bad marriage when they do not have enough money to go live on thier own?
If it's in your name you will be responsible for it, yes.





Either talk to the landlord and see about breaking the lease early.





Or suck it up until the lease it up. If your married then your both legally allowed to live there -- even if his name isn't on the lease he is legally allowed because your married. You can move out, but you will still be responsible for the rent because your name is on the contract.





Anyway, file for separation immediately and then start divorce proceedings. Uncontested divorce is easiest and cheapest and will run you only a couple hundred. In the mean time though determine the living situation and start socking money away where you can for the divorce. Start looking online or at books in the library about budgeting and cutting living expenses down to necessities.





It CAN be done, but you might have to make a few sacrifices along the way. The sooner you file for separation -- the sooner you can work out the problem with the lease and being stuck in the same household as your husband.
you could go to family and friends or to your local social services, you may want to think about a woman's shelter, until you get on your feet. if a person want out bad enough, they will get out someway. and yes you're responsible for the apartment, unless you can get your landlord to put it in your husband's name. because if he doesn't pay it, somewhere down the line you'll end up in court with the landlord. and if its a divorce you're looking for check out legal aid.
So you are in a bad marriage and want to go where? To have a bad friendship too? or going back to your parents? For how long?


Stay while getting ready to fly away for your own freedom.


Get a job, save money, re-do the lease in a month-to month bases, have a transportation and try by all means to be independent. Then you are ready to leave.
Do like most of the whoores do these days and have another guy to mooch off of until you get tired of him then move on to the next one.
There has to be someone that would take you in until you get back on your feet. Talk to your landlord and explain the situation, sub-lease?


Best of luck.
get a job or better job and move out. Find a friend to move in with. Move in with family.
Put everything in his name or get a job and pay for it yourself and kick him out. either way you win he loses . Good trade off right?
Go live with family.
Get a job..save some money and tell your partner it is over. If you want out you will find a way....they always do!

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