What tricks do women use to trick men into marriage?

I am a 34 year old single guy. I have never been in a serious relationship and I have never had sex because I am shy around women and have concentrated on my education and career. Now that I have a great career and have established myself I am considering dating. I have been told I am very good looking but never really noticed when women came on to me before. My concern is some woman will now try to trap me into marriage. What should I look out for? What tricks do women use to trick men into marriage?What tricks do women use to trick men into marriage?
The only trap I can think of is pregnancy - and sadly I've heard of girls (not any that I knew personally) that have used this to get a man to marry them.





ALWAYS use a condom - it doesn't matter if she says she's on birth control or not - use it use it use it use it!





BRING your own condom - DO NOT use one she supplies for you. My coworkers ex-best friend supposedly poked holes in a condom because she wanted a baby, and she got it!





But remember, most women are not out there to trick a man into marriage or force a man to procreate with them. Most want companionship and love and want to reciprocate. Do not be paranoid of all women who want to date you - just use protection, and make sure it's your own, and get to know them before you commit to anything - that's the most important part.What tricks do women use to trick men into marriage?
Withholding sex.


Intentionally getting pregnant.


Ultimatum to get married or end the relationship.


Refusal to cohabitate.





From their perspective they presume, Why buy the cow if the milk is free?


Nice to know the cows like being bought.





Then there are things that nice women do for their men, but can have ulterior motives:


Cooking for you.


Buying you tickets to a game or event you like.


Buying you a 'toy'; new iPhone, Palm Pilot, XBox 360, maybe a boat or a 4x4 in an extreme case.


Purposefully 'playing your game' with you and /putting on a front/ they enjoy it; whatever your hobby is, running, video-games, fishing, football, etc...


All of that is great, but you have to ask if it is genuine.





The critical thing to weed out, is do they want to get %26gt;married%26lt; or do they want to get married %26gt;to you%26lt;.





You should read some books on relationships; at your age you are looking to date women not girls. If the book starts talking about crap about not calling them too frequent to make them want you to and drive them crazy, it's a book about girls not women.
This question is so funny! I guess there are women out there who may have a bag of ';tricks'; to get men to marry them, but, if you've taken the time to focus on your education and career, I hope you can see past those tricks.





My advice is to follow your instincts, if you start getting serious with someone and things just don't feel right, then maybe somethings going on. I think you'll know when you've found the right girl, just make sure she's not too pushy or anything when it comes to getting hitched, trust your gut instinct because it's usually right.
Asking for sympathy because of one of your friends then luring you into sex, drunken sex, sex with no strings (yeah right), pinched condoms, fake pregnancies leading to more sex until they DO get pregnant, getting drunk and they claim you had sex with them. Dont do anything you dont want pictures or video of exposing you.
yeah don't think so highly of yourself. At 34 most women want a man who has experience in life. Most women don't try to trap guys, sounds like you have been listening to your friends and watch way too much tv.
You better watch out for us voodoo women, we cast spells and have you begging to marry us by the second date.
Pregnancies
Sex and since you are a virgin you are fresh meat.
Tricks the only thing I can think of is pregnancy and sex
Like we would tell you!
Look here everyone.





A 34 year old virgin.








Lucky US!








NOT!
Roofies. Always watch your drink...
Wow, you are very smart. Your life might turn out ok after all.





Here are the tricks:


1. being nice


2. acting interested in you and what you're doing


3. cooking for you


4. wearing attractive clothing %26amp; jewelry


5. meeting your mother and being polite





Here is what you should look for, the good signs:


1. moderate to homely looks, but cute in a way you appreciate.


2. doesn't get a lot of stares when you go with her to a restaurant


3. exercises as a habit, in moderation


4. has some hobbies and interests that don't require you paying and her sitting and being entertained


5. willing to go out with a group of your friends, and interacts with them


6. eats salad because she likes it, not because she is supposed to.


7. does not eat chocolate bars with her diet coke


8. after a few dates, invite her over for another date at your house, dinner and a movie. after the movie, when it's late, suggest that she stay overnight on the couch. don't try to have sex with her. if she stays overnight, that's good. if she bolts, that's bad. she's too indpendent and she'll never give up her soul for you.