Thursday, May 13, 2010

What is the marriage supper of the Lamb?

Who is the wife of the Lamb and who are the guests at the marriage supper?What is the marriage supper of the Lamb?
The apostle John leaves us in no doubt as to whom the Bride class, the anointed Christian congregation, marries in heaven. In Revelation 19:6-9 John writes: “Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the sound of many waters and like the sound of mighty thunderpeals, crying, ‘Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to be clothed with fine linen, bright and pure’—for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, ‘Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.’ And he said to me, ‘These are true words of God.’”—RS.





54 The marriage is that of the Lamb of God, not the marriage of the Lord our God the Almighty. The Bride is the Bride of the Lamb of God, not the Bride of God the Almighty. The marriage supper is that of the Lamb of God; and the prophetic parables of Jesus indicate that it is his Father, the Lord our God the Almighty, who prepares the marriage supper for the Lamb, his Son.





55 A few verses later on, in Revelation 19:11-16, the apostle John identifies the Lamb of God as being the Word or Logos, for John sees the Lamb riding forth to battle against his Father’s enemies. John describes him, saying: “He is clad in a robe dipped in blood, and the name by which he is called is The Word of God. . . . On his robe and on his thigh he has a name inscribed, King of kings and Lord of lords.” (RS) Hence his 144,000 faithful followers become the Bride of the Word of God, not the Bride of God.





56 The ones married are shown again in the further vision, which John describes, saying: “I saw also the holy city, New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God and prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And there came one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls which were full of the seven last plagues, and he spoke with me and said: ‘Come here, I will show you the bride, the Lamb’s wife.’ So he carried me away in the power of the spirit to a great and lofty mountain, and he showed me the holy city Jerusalem coming down out of heaven from God and having the glory of God. . . . The wall of the city also had twelve foundation stones, and on them the twelve names of the twelve apostles of the Lamb. And I did not see a temple in it, for Jehovah God the Almighty is its temple, also the Lamb is. And the city has no need of the sun nor of the moon to shine upon it, for the glory of God lighted it up, and its lamp was the Lamb.”—Rev. 21:2, 9-11, 14, 22, 23.





57 Always we are shown that there is a distinction made between the Lamb and the Lord our God the Almighty, and that it is to the Lamb that the Bride of 144,000 members is married. It is the Lamb’s wife that she becomes. If there were such a thing as the Trinity, then the 144,000 could not help marrying God in one of his Persons and thus becoming one with God.What is the marriage supper of the Lamb?
The Lamb's Supper by Scott Hahn is a great book.





The marriage supper is the celebration of the Euchurist and anyone who keeps Jesus' words and joins him in Communion is one with Him.





He commissioned his Apostles to make disciples of all nations.
The wife of the Lamb is the true church/ the redeemed of Christ; and the marriage supper is that time when the redeemed and Christ all meet together for the first time in Heaven.
I prefer the lamb cooked extremely well and served with a mint sauce--marrying the lamb with my stomach juices.
The Church is His Bride. The Lamb is Jesus. The marriage supper is when the Bride joins The Lamb in Heaven.

What is a marriage ceremony like between people of different traditions?

Different religions have so many different wedding traditions. What are ceremonies like that mix two different religions of the couple? (This is coming from someone who is single and has no idea why she has this curiosity!)What is a marriage ceremony like between people of different traditions?
Each couple is different - you can have just about anything you want at your ceremony!





Anyone can marry you - if they are a notary in that state or ordained to marry anywhere.





My husband and I have very different backgrounds - his family is Italian and more Catholic, mine is Irish and more laid back and not very religious.





We chose to do what was best for us as a couple (we aren't religious) - and had a close friend marry us on a yacht (she is a notary).





Everything worked out wonderfully and we were so happy!





Each couple choose what is best for them - and really, the sky is the limit to what you can do!What is a marriage ceremony like between people of different traditions?
It is common to have 2 officiants at a wedding. One from each persons faith. The 2 officiants will work together to form a ceremony specialized to the needs of the Bride and Groom. But some times the 2 different spiritual leaders won't work together, and that is when the couple will have 2 separate ceremonies. One for each faith. You see this a lot with Christian and Hindu couples.
If both parties are agreeing, they usually do things from both traditions in the ceremony and reception. I went to a Jewish/Christian wedding 2 weeks ago and they said everything in Hebrew and translated in English, and they incorporated both traditions such as the glass stomping and other things like that all combined. It was really nice!
I was a bridesmaid in a gorgeous NYC wedding where the bride (my friend) was Catholic and her now husband was Jewish...it was pretty cool! They had a Rabi AND a Priest marry them. It was like any ceremony, but with more flare :o)
2 different traditions
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  • How long does a couple have to be together before they are considered to have a common law marriage?

    I am not looking for your opinion on Common Law marriage, quite frankly I don't care if you don't believe in it. I am however, asking for the minimum requirement for Common Law in California.How long does a couple have to be together before they are considered to have a common law marriage?
    Common Law Marriage FAQ





    Common Law Marriage is not recognized in the state of California.


    Learn what it is and where it's recognized.


    http://www.google.com/search?q=common+la鈥?/a>








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    Well... that didn't take very long, did it?


    LOLHow long does a couple have to be together before they are considered to have a common law marriage?
    California does not recognize common law marriages. Which mean that you cannot ever be common-law married. Either way, common law marriage is established when a man and woman cohabit and recognize themselves as husband and wife...as well as act as husband and wife in public. There is no time minimum for this. But, like I said, you are in CA...it does not exist. These states do:





    Alabama


    Colorado


    District of Columbia


    Georgia (if created before 1/1/97)


    Idaho (if created before 1/1/96)


    Iowa


    Kansas


    Montana


    New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only)


    Ohio (if created before 10/10/91)


    Oklahoma


    Pennsylvania (if created before 1/1/05)


    Rhode Island


    South Carolina


    Texas


    Utah
    I do not believe California has common-law marriage.


    For states that do, it's 7-10 years living together /and/ you must /both/ present yourselves as husband %26amp; wife.


    Just living together is not enough.





    Common law marriage is recognized only in the following states:





    * Alabama


    * Colorado


    * District of Columbia


    * Iowa


    * Kansas


    * Montana


    * New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only)


    * Oklahoma


    * Pennsylvania


    * Rhode Island


    * South Carolina


    * Texas


    * Utah
    First are you sure that California recognizes common law marriage? There are only a few states that do. I belive its 7 or 10 yrs.





    Call your county offices and ask if anyone knows the answer. Or call a lawyer that deals with family issues.
    California doesn't recognize Common Law marriage.
    As far as I know the state of California does NOT recognize Common Law Marriages.
    California doesn't recognize common-law marriage, period. Stop trolling and start Googling.
    Common Law marriage is not recognized in California.
    I believe the statute has it listed as 7 years
    10 years, but your state may not recognize this law. Call and find out!
    I believe it's 7 years. But that's redneck years.

    What is the difference between a domestic partnership and a marriage?

    Im doing a paper on prop 8 and i wanted to know whether the domestic partners get the same rights as married couples.. and if not, what are married couples allowed that domestic partners aren't?What is the difference between a domestic partnership and a marriage?
    While civil unions grant same-sex couples the same protections as married couples under state law, they deny same-sex couples the 1,049 protections granted to married couples under federal law. These include Social Security survivor benefits, the ability the sponsor a partner for immigration and the ability to take federal leave (and state leave in all states, excluding California) to care for a sick partner.





    Furthermore, civil unions aren鈥檛 portable, meaning that states can refuse to recognize a civil union from another state. Unfortunately, civil unions are only performed in Vermont and, to date, no other state has recognized a civil union performed there. Married couples have the privilege of having their union recognized in all 50 states.What is the difference between a domestic partnership and a marriage?
    Bragging rights . . . that's the ONLY difference.





    The ';legal'; protections are the same . . . but a civil union won't give you bragging rights to say, ';I'm MARRIED.';





    Dan in Miami
    i'm pretty sure they get the same rights in a domestic partnership as if it were a marriage. they just don't have the right to call it a ';marriage';.
    nothing just that homos complain too much that they want it to be called marriage its that dumb equal rights crap

    How is the best way to make any Relationship or Marriage work out?

    I mean how do i get the best out of my Relationships or Marriage and Making my Partner Happy too.How is the best way to make any Relationship or Marriage work out?
    communication is key.


    rub her feet from time to time,


    also it wouldnt hurt to surprize her from time to time either by..you know, sending flowers to her work or showing up at her house with flowers.little things like that means ALOT. you know just get creative and romantic alot of ladies love that stuffHow is the best way to make any Relationship or Marriage work out?
    Realize and understand how important sex is to the relationship. Ladies keep up your looks no matter what. Men be Men. Take care of her. Open the door, take the trash, make sure the car is clean, in working order. Listen to her when she talks. Show an interest in her life. Ladies, guys don't seem to care about the emotional aspect of things. So don't waste your time. Just keep up appearances.
    Communication....and honesty. The only way to make your partner happy is to know what makes him/her happy. And the same goes for you too. Open communication is the start of a happy life!
    Lots and lots and lots and lots!!!!! of sex... do it all the time, every where, allll night long!!!!!! Next time you see your loved one say, lets get it oooooooooooooooon babe!
    It's a bit of a cliche, but here's your answer: COMMUNICATION. The most important skills you can have are being a good communicator and being a better listener.
    Be there for them no matter what. Talk with them, and care for them. In a marriage, make sure that you do little things for your spouse sparingly. If you fight always make up. Never go to bed angry.
    Communication is the way to go. Being patient and being able to talk about anything is what the greatest relationships are built on.
    Communication.











    Also; Oral sex.
    Communication


    sex


    love


    trust


    honer


    Support for each other
    Preventive counseling.
    Talk to your partner if you're feeling uncomfortable or a bit out of place..Talking helps.
    Live in love, stay true and committed.
    Threesome with her/his best friend
    God
    be understanding, spend time, and put that person first with work
    trust honestly and communication
    never forget what made you fall for them in the first place

    What tricks do women use to trap a man into marriage?

    I am a 34 year old single guy. I have never been in a serious relationship and I have never had sex because I am shy around women and have concentrated on my education and career. Now that I have a great career and have established myself I am considering dating. I have been told I am very good looking but never really noticed when women came on to me before. My concern is some woman will now try to trap me into marriage. What should I look out for? What tricks do women use to trick men into marriage?What tricks do women use to trap a man into marriage?
    I usually put some meat under a box with a stick holding it up. I attach a string to the stick and hide behind a bush or large rock. Then when a man innocently wonders into my trap I pull the string, thereby trapping the man under the box. That has worked pretty well for me so far.What tricks do women use to trap a man into marriage?
    Why would any woman want to trick you into marriage? Most women prefer to marry men who want to marry them too. If you don't want to marry a particular woman, why would she try to trick you into marriage?





    If your intentions towards a woman are not serious, then it is best to keep things quite casual. Don't make any promises you don't intend to keep. Most women can find men who want to marry them without the need to trick a man into marriage.
    Most women won't try to trick you into marriage.





    If you have money, though, you're more likely to get tricked. If she's always asking you to buy things, or hinting around that she'd like this or that, take it as a big red flag.





    Otherwise, just take your time - get to know a woman as a friend for a while first, and then, once you've had time with no strings attached and no expectations or pressure, if you think she's someone you'd like to date, make her your girlfriend. Take your time. There's no reason to rush rush rush or to jump right into a romantic relationship with someone you don't know well. Pay attention to what she says and does (especially when she thinks you aren't looking). There will be red flags if she's a gold digger.
    Do you assume that your such a catch women feel the need to claim you, or just that women are lurking in corners and dark ally ways trying to find a male victim to attach themselves too?


    You can't get trapped into marriage.


    Nobody can force you to marry someone.


    Sure, someone could get pregnant and say that it's the right thing to do, but you still wouldn't have to marry them, and it's half your fault anyway.


    Why don't you just go out and have fun, instead of worrying that women will suck you into their evil plans and force you into marriage.
    No one can make you do anything you don't wanna do my friend. If you don't want to get married you won't get married. If you chose to have sex with a woman, and you're not ready for kids, wear a condom or don't do it all (as you have been). Find a woman that you're ready to settle down with and leave it at that! There are not magical tricks, here are not special deals or curses that will force you into a union with someone you're not ready to wed (even if you did have a kid with her). Marriage in this country is voluntary. And no one can arrange a marriage for you, nor make you take someones hand in marriage.
    Just because you have your career? PLEASEEEE dude! They may want to use you for your money but not marriage unless you find yourself with a broke desperate single mother with kids. How about getting off your high horse back down into reality. Start with that first. Then you can learn to build yourself a personality that will attract the right type of woman for you. You don't need to be thinking about all sorts of tricks women use. Go ask momma for an arranged marriage if your that scared.
    How can someone ';trap'; you into marriage? I don't think most states recognize the legality of shotgun weddings anymore. And considering that you're a 34 year old virgin who's never really dated before, I think you're skipping kinda far down on the list of concerns you should have with the dating process right now.
    well people who talk about marriage on the first few dates or what not!


    like if i was a guy and your a girl reading this question would make me back off from you


    why?


    because you never had sex and your talking about this marriage stuff!


    why not take it one step at a time and just date!





    if your this scared about being trapped everyone will be guilty in your eyes and you'll never get married.


    so just enjoy the momement at hand and love people for who they are!
    Since the other people above me clearly got the ';trapping'; subject covered (there are some hilarious answers on here, lol), not much for me to say there, but what I have to say is whats wrong with marriage? Whats wrong with settling down? Ha, I mean your not getting any younger pal....


    I'm just being honest here.
    Dude. You're a 34 year old virgin who has never dated. Do you really think women are that scary that they are all desperate to trap you into marriage? Maybe you'll date them and they won't even like you! Your ego is huge for a 34-year-old-virgin.
    They'll use their sexuality and flattery to lure you in. Once lured in, they'll pressure you into marrying them giving them full access to your bank account. They'll only do this if they see you as a suitable mate though.
    The oldest one is ';get married and i'll let you tap this.';





    Also, guilt trips, crying, and acting wonderful until the ring is on are also common tactics.
    TWO WORDS: ';I'm pregnant';.... just kidding... stay a virgin until you're married and that won't be a problem and you'll love the girl for who she is not for what she does in bed. Classy ladies don't use tricks.
    You lost me at 34 year old virgin. I don't believe it is because of the reasons you gave. So if a girl actually wants to marry you, jump on it because it may be your last and only chance,
    i dont know any women who woudl trick someone into marriage - i want to marry someone who actively wants to marry me, an who doesnt need any convincing or trickery!
    In no particular order:


    Get pregnant


    Nag


    Ask them what they think about marriage when the man is near orgasm (at that moment they would bark like a dog if you asked them to)





    oh crap, that's all I have
    WHOA!!! you shook my equilibrium for a moment there.





    you're making it sound like no man ever want to get married. no trick there. some men just want to get married.
    Just make sure your wallet is locked, and that you're the only one who knows your pin #.





    Don't fall for any ';crying'; about money, walk away from it, even if you feel bad.
    Beware if she has a buried electrical wire running around the perimeter of her house and she tries to get you to wear a collar.
    Pregnancy and the old tireless favorite. Calling you a commitment-phobe. Typical shaming tactics.
    I wouldn't worry about it too much if I were you--you're already so defensive that not a whole lot women would want you.
    No one is going to try to trap you. You sound like an unappealing nerd anyway.
    Basically acting like decent people is the #1 tipoff to look ot for......
    What I do is hang a neon sign in my window, and the men come running to me screaming MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao
    Um, get over yourself, no one wants you.
    Like, she's going to drug you and drag you to Vegas?
    trap you! with that attitude I doubt you'll get one to date you
    youre a 34 year old virgin who has never been in a relationship? and you blame the career and education? lol news flash people have balanced career, education,and relationships for quite some time! good luck on working out those social skills...








    if you arent even in a relationship then you couldnt understand the love that drives people to marry or just spend a large portion of their lives together. marriage isnt for everyone. and you wont have to worry about it because most women arent just going to try to marry some guy they hardly know. youll know when you want to get married and thats all that matters. if youre not ready to marry and youre not feeling the relationship then just move on.





    the only way to actually trap a man into marriage would be having kids. anything else is just excuses from weak men. men trap women in marriages as well sometimes btw...
    Pregnancy, rape accusations (in Latin America).





    You shouldn't have waited so long. Less attractive girls might not make you as hard but if you don't look like and them when having sex and imagine a young attractive girl you can still enjoy it a bit. Try prostitutes, just double bag it. Whatever you do, do not tell the girl you're a virgin. That is a big turn-off!





    Answer this-- do you want a 30-34 year-old woman or an 18-23 girl to be with?

    How did your marriage change after the birth of your baby?

    My dh and I have been together for 10 yrs, married for 7. We've always been very close. But since the pregnancy and birth of our very much wanted baby boy, I'm seeing different traits in my dh that I'm not too happy with (selfishness especially). I'm back at work, and I'm still paying 1/2 the bills, so it's not a $ thing, and we have very good childcare coverage and plenty of time to spend as just husband and wife (every Sat night is date night.) Rgh. Is this permanent?!How did your marriage change after the birth of your baby?
    I don't know if this is permanent, but from what i understand it's pretty common. I got my dh a book called Hit the Ground Crawling. It's for dads-to-be and new dads, but it tackles how marriage changes and how guys often react to a new bub. We got the book from www.newdads.com and it was well worth the $$. DH loves it as its written by guys for guys, but helps them adjust to the new addition in their life.How did your marriage change after the birth of your baby?
    Stick with it! Things do get better. Having a baby in the house is a huge adjustment. Your dh has to share his emotions with two of you now. Our kids are much older now and I feel like my dh and I are beginning to have a life of our own again. The kids still dominate most of our time and emotions but we can see ';the light at the end of the tunnel.';
    i agree with lydia mine sleeps on the couch my whole pregnancy and even now (baby only 2 weeks) i'm the one that feeds her changes her dresses her does everything for her SOOOO when u get the answer please let me know
    i was'nt married when i had my frist becouse i was like 15 and i am 16 now and have another but when my boyfreind frist found out he left me and came back about 11 months ago and got me pregnant again and i had my second 3 weeks ago and he left when he found out i still have gaven my frist baby and when he found out i was keeping christine my baby gril and he has'nt came back and i will never take him back
    I have 2,and yes, things change. He might be selfish because ';he's'; not the center of your attention anymore. You are doing the right thing though by making time for each other. No, it's not permanent, but babies require a lot of adjustments. He might even feel left out if you take care of the baby when you are both home. Maybe you can have him give him a bath, a bottle, read a story so they can bound as father/son also. On your next ';date night';, maybe you can discuss this with each other. Communication is the best thing to making a marriage work.
    When the right answer comes along, holler. My son was born 8 years ago, and it hasn't changed for me yet.
    My marriage didn't change at all. We just grew even closer %26amp; I didn't even know that was possible. We'd been married for 15 years wanting a baby when we finally got pg.


    Your husband may be going through some kind of adjustment. My husband started having anxiety attacks in my 4th month of pregnancy %26amp; they just got worse after our son was born. He's fine now though.


    I guess every new dad deals with it in different ways.
    I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 16 YEARS, MARRIED 12. WE HAVE 3 BOYS 15, 11, AND 3. IT CHANGED ALOT. SEX LIFE, I DON'T HAVE. I'M 32 AND HUSBAND IS 40, I'M VERY AFFECTIONATE AND HE'S NOT. I AM A FULL TIME STAY-AT- HOME MOM AND FEEL THAT I DESERVE SEX 1 TIME A WEEK, I'M LUCKY IF I GET 1 TIME A MONTH. HAVING A BABY IS A BIG ADJUSTMENT FOR EVERYONE. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, ALOT OF WOMEN FEEL THE SAME AS YOU. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
    As one from the other side I will say that most men do look at their wives very different after she gets pregnant and especially after the child is born. I know I did and still do not know why. We parted company and I have stayed single since. Never another child in my house. I have no idea where they are now.
    I had to raise my wife along with my son. My wife didn't work before my first was born.
    I was with mine for 5 years when I got pregnant and he did change with the selfishness. I hear you. He was more worried about material things for himself then me going out to buy the baby things and bills. Were still working it now.
    I don't think that there is anything more life-changing than having a baby. It's such a huge deal to become parents, I know that my dh and I have had to make some huge adjustments.





    You're doing the right thing by making time for yourselves. I think that, in time, you will begin to regain some of your closeness and love for each other. Babies bring reality with them. I'm sure you will be fine, what you are feeling is very normal and things do calm down!

    Why isn't the media hounding Obama on the gay marriage issue like they hounded a petty beauty queen?

    I mean c'mon they both said the same thing and she may lose her title over it?? Should Obama then lose his presidency? what really is the difference except perhaps the medias fear of Obama?Why isn't the media hounding Obama on the gay marriage issue like they hounded a petty beauty queen?
    Barry is a liberal and they love him.





    Some assume he's pro-gay marriage. Some assume most Americans are pro-gay marriage. THEY ARE WRONG!Why isn't the media hounding Obama on the gay marriage issue like they hounded a petty beauty queen?
    She put herself out there. While her comments on gay marriage may have sparked an interest in people digging deeper, her comments are not the reason she'll lose the crown if she does. If her position on gay marriage was the only strike against her, she wouldn't lose the title. She made a conscious decision to pose semi-nude for photographs and that decision is now coming back to haunt her. She won't be the first pageant queen to experience the same type of scandal. Does Vanessa Williams ring a bell? She was pretty much forced to surrender the Miss America title for the same reason. Miss California isn't the first and probably won't be the last.


    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vanessa_L._鈥?/a>
    Because Miss California is a white beautiful strong blond woman. barry obama is black. Period. Don't you realize the US Government has caved to being politically correct from allowing illegal immagrents amnesty to releasing terrorists. Watch out...it's becoming Damn the US Constitution and it's beloved GOD Bless America and hold on for everyone having rights in the US expect white Americans. I mean it's ok for black Obama to joke last night that his daughters were grounded for flying Scare Force One over Manhattan. If a white President joked about his kids were grounded for wearing a white sheet over their heads and burning crosses in the ghettos..he'd be booed of stage. The point..bad taste is bad taste but bc obama is black he gets laughs about how scared people from Manhattan were from obama being sucha stupid weak man he didn't have any control over his own plane.





    he's a sick psychopath.
    It's not the media's fear of Obama, they are just simply liberal. They love obama and are willing to overlook his stance on that. It's called favoritism.





    http://thekool-aiddrinker.blogspot.com
    Excellent, excellent point. It's as if his supporters put their fingers in their ears and chant ';la la la la la'; when the topic comes up. They skewered McCain/Palin about it when the Obama campaign had the SAME DAMN OPINION!!
    President Obama didn't get a boob job, pose semi-nude, and prance across the stage half-naked claiming to be a Christian. She has the right to say what she said, we have the right to call her a door knob.
    The difference is that he's the president of the united states and she's a beauty queen. He's has more on his plate than she does.
    Obama isn't doing a speaking tour on gay marriage. The media isn't ';hounding'; Prejean...she's giving press conferences ON GAY MARRIAGE.
    Barack Obama is closet gay.


    Closet homosexuals are often homophobic.
    Obama is truth, he has no need to explain himself.
    They expect Obama to pony up any day now.
    Communists have infiltrated the media and govt.
    She is losing her title because she did porno %26amp; the videos have come to surface. They NEVER allowed this before so why should they now.
    They love their demi-god, he gets a pass on everything.
    Obama didn't whine and try to make a career out out of it.
    One is a Christian, the other is a Muslim Marxist.
    Double edged sword.
    When Obama gets breast implants and does some semi nude pics?
    why isn't fox doing it?
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  • Can we change the date we were married on our Marriage certificate?

    We were married in 1999, but want to legally change it to 1990. The reason is purely because we wish we were married before our children from previous marriages were born. They obviously know their bio parents. No secrets or anything. It would just be a symbolic thing for us. You know, a wish.Can we change the date we were married on our Marriage certificate?
    No, you can't change it. Find a different symbolic way to commemorate your relationship. I find your desire to bump things back to befopre your kids were born to be puzzling. If that indeed had been the case, none of your children would be here, because each child is a unique human being from your former relationships.Can we change the date we were married on our Marriage certificate?
    Ummm...NO! SO u'd like ur wedding certificate to say you were married to A when the kids birth certificates will say their dad/mum is B and C. WOuldnt like to be doing ur family tree down the track. Your marriage certificate is like a legal binding document. If u find out let me know so i can get a few years shaved off my birth certificate.
    Sorry, but no. A marriage certificate is a legal document and legal documents cannot be ';adjusted'; to suit your fancy or wishes.
    no dont think you can do that sorry.
    No you can't.
    No, that is against the Law and would render your marriage ';fraudulent';.
    No you can't.
    can you change the date on a legal document? what do you think?
    Ask Obama. He could probably give you some tips on how to falsify it.
    It's a legal document, so.....no.

    What do you think about the California vote against gay marriage and the court overturning it?

    Shouldnt the court uphold the rule of the people. Is this similar to the presidental election of Bush and Gore?What do you think about the California vote against gay marriage and the court overturning it?
    What the court did is called 'legislating from the bench.' In effect they are making rulings based on their political opinions instead of what the law says.





    It sounds like those of us in California need to start gathering signatures for a recall election like we did to Rose Bird in the '70s.What do you think about the California vote against gay marriage and the court overturning it?
    This is nothing new to Californians. It happens on a fairly regular basis.





    The court must follow the Constitution as they interpret it. You can put anything on the ballot; you could put a proposition on the ballot to reinstate slavery if you could get enough signatures to qualify it. Only when the law takes effect and is challenged is the court brought into the picture.





    Al Gore wanted to ignore Florida law and only recount part of the returns. Florida law is plane, if you have a recount it all gets recounted. When Gore challenged that law Bush was pretty much forced onto the other side of the issue. It went to the Florida Supreme Court which upheld the law. The Gore took it to the US Supreme court and they recognized that States Rights include establishing the voting procedures for their state and upheld the FSC decision.





    Gore came from an administration so used to ignoring the law that he thought he was still the VP and could push anyone around he wanted to. It didn't work, FSC read the law, read the Constitution and said, ';Hey this guy has no case';.





    The California vote on the gay marriage thing was 60/40 in favor of keeping marriage between one man and one woman. If 60% of Florida's voters had voted Gore the outcome would have been considerably different.
    I voted against Prop 22 (the same-sex marriage ban).





    If the law actually did violate the California state Constitution, the court was absolutely correct to strike it down. If the court was creating a new right, I think it was wrong to do so. I'm not conversant enough with the state Constitution to be able to judge, but from a law professor's blog entry I read, it does appear to be correct.





    If a law is unconstitutional, it doesn't matter if it was enacted through the legislature, or by direct vote, it should be struck down.
    The supreme court will not rule on whether or not an amendment is constitutional until it becomes law. It would take forever to wade through all of the new state laws every two years and make sure everything is ok. Most stuff like that would not be voted into law anyways so it would waste the courts time.





    I am not sure about California, but here in Colorado you just have to get enough signatures from public to get admendments to be voted on. No government offical has to propose them for them to be voted on in the elections.
    I think you should live your life and let those people get married if they want to. Seeing gay people kissing isnt going to make you want to be gay, i hope youre not that feeble minded. Thats something they have to live with not you. Why do people always have to be invovled in other peoples lives, its just plain and simply not your business. I think it should be legal everywhere, who cares so what. Your not gay great for you, but that doesnt mean that youre better than they are, there is one sin thats unforgiveable in Gods eyes, and that aint it.
    whatever happened to the moral majority????


    it seems a small group of people who prefer a deviant life style have more rights than the clear majority, whats up with that??????


    a few politicians are after the vote and don't care about whats right or wrong just their bottom line.they are as crooked as the day is long.judges overthrowing laws to make a name for themselves!!!! really what will that be like standing before the judgment seat of GOD when you have overthrown GODS laws and principles and values????


    people do not be fooled just because a sin is common does not change the fact that it is a sin!!! no man shall change the word of GOD not even the self proclaimed pope of the roman catholic persuasion???


    homosexuality is an abomination to GOD! he has not changed his mind and marriage was ordained by GOD as being between a man and a woman no exceptions!!!GOD BLESS!
    There is SUPPOSED to be a separation between church and state, so I don't know why this gay marriage thing is still an issue. Conservative Christians will say that the Bible states that marriage is between a man and a woman and however this country is not supposed to be governed by the Bible or any other holy book. So yes, I think the ban should have been overturned.
    I think it is ridiculous that it has even become this big of an issue. I say let them have all the benefits of being married, but maintain that they also have all the problems with dissolution of the marriage. I really don't care about what someone else wants to do with their life, as long as it does not effect mine.
    this is a typical end run for the liberals in this country that want to tell everyone how to live and what morals we should live under. it is a shame that this happens over and over again and the hurt it does the people . isn't it about time that the people take back the country from the liberals that want to destroy it? liberals and congressional liberals have ganged up on the country. wait till the country starts using more eletricity than we can produce and maybe it will spark the people to get off their butts and overhaul the country so that are pursuit of happiness can be enjoyed mr doodles
    The problem is that what gives the majority the right to enact laws that RESTRICT the rights of a group of people??

    How do you stop an ex from interfering in our marriage?

    My spouses ex knows how to push buttons. My spouse will speak to me about the problems and when I agree or give my opinion, that's when my spouse thinks I am bias. Somehow the ex involves the child which makes the problem more complex. This is not good for our marriage.How do you stop an ex from interfering in our marriage?
    Forget the ex, do what you know is best unless there is a court order that says otherwise. I used to be a kid in a custody fight, I know; Do what is best for the kids, they will love you for it when they get older.

    Can a civil marriage be changed to a catholic one?

    If two people are married in a civil ceremony, can the marriage be recognized by the church later on?Can a civil marriage be changed to a catholic one?
    Yes.





    This is called a Convalidation of Marriage. Here is an article about the steps involved: http://www.americancatholic.org/Newslett鈥?/a>





    Talk to your parish priest to get the process started.





    For more information, see the Code of Canon Law, paragraphs 1156 and following: http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__鈥?/a>





    With love and prayers in Christ.Can a civil marriage be changed to a catholic one?
    If you are both Catholic and belong to a Catholic church..then you can have a catholic ceremony, and yes it willl be recognized by the church.


    Sorta like renewing your vowes..only with a lot more rules.
    I believe you'd have to have a marriage ceremony performed by a Catholic priest for it to be recognized by the Catholic Church.
    Yes, it's called ';convalidation.'; Consult your priest.
    Yes you can go see your Pastor
    have a renewal wedding in the church.
    Sure! Just talk to your priest. As long as one of you is Catholic, then there is no problem.
    Good luck with that.

    Where can I research the global perspective on same sex marriage?

    I am doing a speech on the global perspective on SSM and Im having a really hard time finding anything to talk about, or reliable sources. Any statistic reliable statistic sites?Where can I research the global perspective on same sex marriage?
    Might I suggest that while you're on the subject, you might postulate as to why gays and heterosexuals should be allowed to marry while all the other orientations are denied?





    Shouldn't bisexuals be allowed to have pluralistic marriages?





    Why are close relatives, such as consenting adult gay and heterosexual siblings, consenting adult gay or heterosexual parent %26amp; offspring not allowed to marry? They are also considered a sexual orientation, and with current reproduction technology, there are no medical reasons to deny them.





    What about those who are sexually attracted to animals? That's also a recognized orientation.





    Finally, there's the most controversial sexual orientation, which is illegal to be, or even think about being. In many ways, it can be said that they are they reason why research needs to be done to determine how to correct genetic abnormalities that result in in sexual orientations that is not acceptable to the majority of NORMAL society.





    Perhaps if the cause of alternate sexual orientations can be found, these individuals can be treated and cured in utero through DNA manipulation, or aborted so that they never come to exist.





    This alternate sexual orientation was establish in the summer of 2000 in the exact same same that homosexuality was establish as an alternate sexual orientation in 1974.


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    Those who are attracted to children.Where can I research the global perspective on same sex marriage?
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    http://www.speakout.com/activism/gayrigh鈥?/a>





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  • Can you get military benefits with a Certified Copy of Marriage Register?

    We were married in Jamaica this past week and received a document: Certified Copy of Marriage Register. Our official Marriage Certificate will come via snail mail in a few months. My husband is in the US Marines and we are not sure if I can get my military ID (begin receiving health benefits, etc.) with this document.





    We will call base in the am but in the mean time just wondering if anyone knows?





    Thanks in advance.Can you get military benefits with a Certified Copy of Marriage Register?
    You will have to either contact his command to find out or you could call DEERS and find out. DEERS is who you have to enroll with as a dependent.





    http://www.tricare.osd.mil/deers/active.鈥?/a>Can you get military benefits with a Certified Copy of Marriage Register?
    I believe you can get the same benefits as your husband and yes you can get an ID but you definitely need the marriage certificate to get anything.

    Why some couples get married with an option that if marriage will not work?

    they always have the option for a divorce....why this sacred union is no more sacred to today's youth .Why some couples get married with an option that if marriage will not work?
    That is such a generalisation. I think it is rather unfair of you to state it actually. I am currently going through divorce, when I got married, I did not believe in divorce, and to this very day I still don't want a divorce. My husband however does, and I can not force him to stay married to me. Some people, both young and older just don't see marriage as special these days, I believe the court system makes it too easy for couples to get divorced, I believe all couples should have to undergo marriage counselling before applying for a divorce (of course that is dependant on the circumstances of that marriage).





    Divorce is painful, I would not wish this upon anyone. So perhaps a re-phrase of your question is in order.Why some couples get married with an option that if marriage will not work?
    It's all because the age-old attitude to marriage has changed. It's sanctity has, to a great extent ,evaporated. It's now more like a co-habitation than a made-for-each other kind of eternal bond, only to be dissolved by death. So far as options are concerned, it has definitely grown bigger and bigger. It's not entirely bad. It has provided greater freedom and personal space between relationships. Today's youth is more open to change and readily goes for experiments. They are also weighing the profit %26amp; loss meticulously and don't attach moral-immoral values to a great extent.
    Nowadays dating is very popular before marriage, most of the youth before marriage itself they spent together frequently...Very often dating, eats away the charm, while entering into their marriage life, they become bored. They are not interestingly live together... and moreover their earning makes them self reliant鈥?they need not bother and also expect anything from their partners about their future requirements鈥?If someone interfere others personal activities they don鈥檛 tolerate or bear it鈥?At that stage their ego overtakes and they suddenly take a hasty decision (Divorce).
    i've seen many couples, who think of cutting off with each other so easily....option of divorce is just like a small thing for them....the sacred bound of love, i.e. marriage, is no longer sacred....infact, i feel bad about the ppl who just take divorce for granted....no doubt, divorce is the only option left for some cases but it should not be made as a first option in the relations which are not working good.....
    Some may find Will Smith's philosophy on marriage a little lackluster in the romance department but in a country where divorce rates are skyrocketing at the same speed as gas prices, I can't help but wonder if he and Jada may have a good thing going on.
    Because the trust levels %26amp; the desire to work on a relationship has gone down. selfishness %26amp; ego centric behaviour has risen. No one wants to tolerate anymore %26amp; everyone wants a honeymoon to go on forever.
    Because they don't love each other. The reason behind their marriage is only physical demand not the mental demand.
    Because they grew up in or with a friend who lived in dysfunctional home and /not/ want that to happen to them.
    yaar didi, bahut darti hoon shaadi se...
    may be just to enjoy very precious moments of life !


    after all it's the richest gift god has provided to all livings.
    Because first impressions arent always real impressions. Especially in an arranged marriage setting, u put ur best foot fwd. It's speed dating. Then u marry n live life. Life has it's ups n downs, n many couples dont adequately talk about how they'll handle the downs. Then it's not tolerated...by the other. Plus, many who live in joint families have in-law interference, and then the spouse chooses the parent, over their sig other. Blood wins over water, n there's a split. Many of today's youth see many reasons couples shouldnt've been married in the first place, n many other situations where it seems ppl were going through motions, so they want a safety net...it's just a precaution so they, nor their future kids will suffer.

    What percentage of marriage in san francisco are inter-racial?

    SF is famous for whitemen with asian women, white women with black men. What percentage?What percentage of marriage in san francisco are inter-racial?
    If you go to wikipedia.org and type in san francisco, i'm sure it will tell you. It tells you everything about the city.

    Why some couples get married with an option that if marriage will not work?

    they always have the option for a divorce....why this sacred union is no more sacred to today's youth .Why some couples get married with an option that if marriage will not work?
    That is such a generalisation. I think it is rather unfair of you to state it actually. I am currently going through divorce, when I got married, I did not believe in divorce, and to this very day I still don't want a divorce. My husband however does, and I can not force him to stay married to me. Some people, both young and older just don't see marriage as special these days, I believe the court system makes it too easy for couples to get divorced, I believe all couples should have to undergo marriage counselling before applying for a divorce (of course that is dependant on the circumstances of that marriage).





    Divorce is painful, I would not wish this upon anyone. So perhaps a re-phrase of your question is in order.Why some couples get married with an option that if marriage will not work?
    It's all because the age-old attitude to marriage has changed. It's sanctity has, to a great extent ,evaporated. It's now more like a co-habitation than a made-for-each other kind of eternal bond, only to be dissolved by death. So far as options are concerned, it has definitely grown bigger and bigger. It's not entirely bad. It has provided greater freedom and personal space between relationships. Today's youth is more open to change and readily goes for experiments. They are also weighing the profit %26amp; loss meticulously and don't attach moral-immoral values to a great extent.
    Nowadays dating is very popular before marriage, most of the youth before marriage itself they spent together frequently...Very often dating, eats away the charm, while entering into their marriage life, they become bored. They are not interestingly live together... and moreover their earning makes them self reliant鈥?they need not bother and also expect anything from their partners about their future requirements鈥?If someone interfere others personal activities they don鈥檛 tolerate or bear it鈥?At that stage their ego overtakes and they suddenly take a hasty decision (Divorce).
    i've seen many couples, who think of cutting off with each other so easily....option of divorce is just like a small thing for them....the sacred bound of love, i.e. marriage, is no longer sacred....infact, i feel bad about the ppl who just take divorce for granted....no doubt, divorce is the only option left for some cases but it should not be made as a first option in the relations which are not working good.....
    Some may find Will Smith's philosophy on marriage a little lackluster in the romance department but in a country where divorce rates are skyrocketing at the same speed as gas prices, I can't help but wonder if he and Jada may have a good thing going on.
    Because the trust levels %26amp; the desire to work on a relationship has gone down. selfishness %26amp; ego centric behaviour has risen. No one wants to tolerate anymore %26amp; everyone wants a honeymoon to go on forever.
    Because they don't love each other. The reason behind their marriage is only physical demand not the mental demand.
    Because they grew up in or with a friend who lived in dysfunctional home and /not/ want that to happen to them.
    yaar didi, bahut darti hoon shaadi se...
    may be just to enjoy very precious moments of life !


    after all it's the richest gift god has provided to all livings.
    Because first impressions arent always real impressions. Especially in an arranged marriage setting, u put ur best foot fwd. It's speed dating. Then u marry n live life. Life has it's ups n downs, n many couples dont adequately talk about how they'll handle the downs. Then it's not tolerated...by the other. Plus, many who live in joint families have in-law interference, and then the spouse chooses the parent, over their sig other. Blood wins over water, n there's a split. Many of today's youth see many reasons couples shouldnt've been married in the first place, n many other situations where it seems ppl were going through motions, so they want a safety net...it's just a precaution so they, nor their future kids will suffer.

    What percentage of marriage in san francisco are inter-racial?

    SF is famous for whitemen with asian women, white women with black men. What percentage?What percentage of marriage in san francisco are inter-racial?
    If you go to wikipedia.org and type in san francisco, i'm sure it will tell you. It tells you everything about the city.

    What are good internet sources to use when writing a research paper abt 2008 candidates views on gay marriage?

    I'm writing a research paper about the views of 2008 candidates when it comes to gay marriage.


    So far i have nytimes.com and washingtonpost.com





    Any other suggestions?!


    Please and thank you.


    Anything helps.What are good internet sources to use when writing a research paper abt 2008 candidates views on gay marriage?
    http://www.ontheissues.org/Issues.htm
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  • How could this be a good idea to repair a marriage?

    We're working on our relationship after my wife's affair (as many of you know by now), and I've been getting emails suggesting we try an open marriage. I don't think I've said anything that would lead people to that opinion, so why do they think it's a good idea? They seem sincere, but wtf? My wife just laughs when I tell her, but I'm really baffled.How could this be a good idea to repair a marriage?
    I think, the reasoning behind it is probably that if there's a desire for multiple partners, it might be worth exploring it together and in agreement with each other, instead of doing it in secret in a form of an affair; i.e., embracing the desires instead of suppressing them. Whether or not it works in your situation, only you and your partner can decide. It's not a magic solution - it works for some and doesn't work for others. If you're not comfortable with it, it's not a good idea to try it. The reason why some people might bring it up is that there's more than one way to skin a cat - but what works for them will not necessarily work for you.How could this be a good idea to repair a marriage?
    Her being with another person is what got you in this delima. Why on earth would you invite more confusion into your lives. It would be much easier to move on without her and start dating again (freely) without the added pressure, rather than subject yourself to ';openly'; cheating on each other , because that's what it really is. If you have decided to forgive her and stay, then you need to go to counseling to start repairing your marriage. If you decide not to stay, then do what is neccessary to get out. I think the people telling you to have an open marriage are complete idiots and have no clue what you are going through. If you listen to them and follow through, you can be making a costly mistake. Far worse than what she did to you.
    eerr...I am not familiar with your other posts but I am under the impression that you are not an advocate of open marriage.





    We have experienced infidelity in our marriage and the only way to get past it is to just get past it. You have to bury it and not bring it up again, and stop any behavior that is sneaky. If you cannot get past it, then you have to break up. There is no way you can stay married and bring that up in every disagreement. Just wont work out.
    An open marriage is never a good idea, unless both parties are on board with it - and really, it should only be done by two people who aren't married and have a no string attached motto for everything.





    Truthfully, I wouldn't stay married to a spouse who has cheated - I would divorce the person instantly. All trust would be gone.






    A opened marriage in my opinion is never Okay. Marriage is the union of two people not you your wife and everyone else. Your wife laughing at it to isn't nice at all. I think she finds it funny only b/c she wasn't the one cheated on.





    A affair is a hard thing to over come and to add people to the mix will only make it worse!





    The people who email you this crap are not on here to help you so you need to ignore them.
    Having an ';open marriage'; is probably the single worst thing you could do if your marriage is in trouble. I suspect that these emails are most likely coming from sex starved teenage boys who enjoy stirring people up. Take it from a man who's been married for 22 years (me): these emails to which you refer are so wrong that they don't even deserve a response.
    according to what you might have said before people gave their opinion that is not always the best thing but you and your wife have to decide at the end of the day what is best for both of you and an open marriage is for fools and desperate people so do the work repair and get it right it is hard work so work hard (wink)
    Because some people are sick, immature, and have no idea what marriage REALLY is about.





    I've known some people in open marriages...and they don't last more than a few short, unhappy years.





    When you ask a question here, remember that we don't use our real names and there is 0% chance we'll have to deal with the consequence of giving you bad advice.





    So remember to take a grain of salt with every response.





    Good Luck!
    I think it's only a good idea if you have a lot of trust in your relationship ... but since your wife just had an affair, I can't imagine that there is much trust right now. It's probably not the best move for your relationship right now.





    Personally, I don't know if I could ever do that kind of stuff. I like my husband all to myself :)
    I am just as baffled....





    It amazes me that people don't understand what the marriage vows mean..';to forsake all others' means you don't have ANY kind of sex with anyone but your spouse...that they are your friend, confidant, lover, companion.........there is no 'to forsake all others, but if you guys agree to an open marriage, that's okay, bring 'em all on';....lol.





    An 'open' marriage is not a marriage at all IMO...just a partnership with legal perks but with a complete lack of fidelity....good luck.
    I myself am a swinger and know plenty of people in open marriages. There are people it can work for, and people it can't.





    We know of NOBODY who did this to save their marriage and actually had it work out well.





    Do NOT do this. Open marriages and swinging can only succeed for couples who have a rock-solid foundation. You do not.
    Yeah giving your wife ';permission'; to put other willies inside of her will really help your marriage....SHEESH!





    Honey, be with a woman that wants to be with you. Problem solved.





    I think SOME people's version of ';setting the bird free'; involves ringing their necks so they can't leave. No wonder society is going to hell.
    Open marriages are built on trust. Your wife's trust from you is broken. Do not listen to those that suggest such a thing. Work hard on the relationship not the sex. Find out why she cheated, I promise, solve that ? and the rest will fall into place.
    Its not, everyone telling you that is insane. Now you told your wife that and she thinks you're an idiot. Sure did a lot of good huh. Go to counseling and try to get her to commit to making it work, as should you.
    she was already living an open marriage.... that is what got you where you are now......








    why would you listen to idiots on here..... and agree to an open marriage.





    I agree with you.... and with your wife..... OPEN MARRIAGE IS NOT THE ANSWER.
    If it's ok for her to cheat (you're still together), why shouldn't it be ok for both of you to cheat, as long as you take the proper precautions to not contact any STDs.
    your trying to repair your marriage after she cheated, so everyones solution is to allow her to cheat?????????? I swear, some peoples kids..... thats retarded.
    I agree with Layla, get out of there. If you have kids, she's an selfish idiot who has cheated them out of a family. Good luck, and get out.
    I would not try to save a marriage where my wife cheated on me. I would kick her a** to the curb.
    I think they are just being sarcastic.





    Ignore those, and reply back to the ones who are serious.





    We get those a lot here on Y.A.
    That sounds like a horrible idea. I think that will lead to the end of your marriage.
    You are correct! :-)
    if she is like that .. then give her a miss big time .. mate ..
    I'd say how noble you are to try to fix this marriage, and no, I'd not suggest an open marriage.... to any one who values a solid relationship.





    However, few marriages survive betrayal, hon. Do a statistical search and you well see that only 20% of them survive 2 years, and that is with both in counseling, and both hoping to save it. Most couples simply report that they just couldn't get past the eeewwww factor, when it was finally over and done.





    There are lots of 13 year olds who answer questions on here. You can usually spot them by the fact that they write in text style, or have no idea that ';i'; as a single word doesn't exist in English. I'm guessing you are getting open marriage suggestions from either them, or young adults who indeed just ';mattress jump';.





    Any counselor will tell you that open marriages don't last long, resentment runs high, and contentment very very low.





    So, no, it for sure won't repair your marriage... and here's why, really little will:





    If marriages are Respect, Passion, Admiration and Trust, the Trust is gone with the Passion getting shared. It is then difficult to truly Admire or Respect someone who has betrayed your trust.





    When these four biggies are gone, the marriage is over, even if you stay together.





    And many couples with kids do, simply because they cannot afford to end it. So, each goes his/her own way, but they share parental responsibilities, and the roof.





    I wish you both well, and hope you two beat the odds.

    Should a state limit an individual to just one recognized marriage during a lifetime?

    I think there should be a limit of 2, 3 at the most. There is a woman who works with me who has been married 7 or 8 times.. Seriously, 7 or 8 times...(only one ended in death, the others were divorce). It's like if you've tried it 7 or 8 times and haven't been successful yet, you might need to give up!Should a state limit an individual to just one recognized marriage during a lifetime?
    And the point of reducing the number of marriages is what? To increase the amount of ';illegitimate'; children born?





    I will use my life as an example. My first wife cheated on me, we got divorced. I have 2 boys with her. My current (and final) wife and I have a son together. Under your proposal or question of limiting a person to one recognized marriage, my youngest son would be considered illegitimate. Also, under this question/proposal, if my current lost her job, she would also lose her benefits. What about social security benefits? Should my ex recieve them, even though I was 23 when we divorced and I plan on spending the next 60+ years with my current?Should a state limit an individual to just one recognized marriage during a lifetime?
    No, they should just make divorce that much harder to get, and dissolve no fault divorce also.
    It's a very good idea -- it hinders 'progressive' thought.
    No - what if my spouse is killed in an accident one day after the wedding - why penalise me for such a tragedy?
    Nope! Even in the Bible there are references to Divorces.
    I don't think a State should even consider getting that much into your private life. Don't you?
    Why, what is the benefit of that? There needs to be a reason.
    No
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    How important is marriage to you with regard to your beliefs/views?

    Please explain why/why not it is importantHow important is marriage to you with regard to your beliefs/views?
    Marriage is a beautiful thing, as it lays the base for a family, which is the source of population, and growth.





    I personally dont have a problem with gays or lesbians, but it kinda conflicts with the family basis (IM NOT SAYING a gay cant raise a child, so nobody freak out and downgrade this.





    So to me, marraige is very important.


    Not EVERYTHING, but marriage %26amp; family life plays a big role.How important is marriage to you with regard to your beliefs/views?
    It's not important at all to me.





    People can make a commitment to each other without a legal bond.





    I realize that in some places there are many reasons why a ';legal'; marriage makes more sense in terms of many government provisos, but if I wasn't married I wouldn't live somewhere that didn't give defacto relationships all the legal rights that legally married people have. I consider that marriage is a matter of choice, not a legal requirement.
    I think its something that should be taken seriously if entered into. However, I do not think it is necessary to have a marriage to have a good life. Its not for everyone. However, everyone should have the right to the legal contract. I am very big on equal rights.
    For me personally it's pretty low on the priority list. I don't see the point of marriage, aside from maybe making taxes a little bit simpler. Why can't two happily committed people just live together? Why do they need a piece of metal on their finger, and a piece of paper saying that they're ';together';?
    So many people want to GET love. That is not loving. When you truly love the other person you mean the vows you speak or you are worthless. If something happens and that person changes, you stay there and try to help them return to himself/herself. If you leave then you are selfish. GETTING love is more important than giving it if you leave. When we truly love, we get so much enjoyment from giving that love. With many people these things are just words.
    Marriage is a joke. The talk of gays ruining the sanctity of it has already been done by divorce rates, shotgun weddings, multiple remarriages, etc. It's been beaten to death. It's time to bury it as a societal institution. It doesn't mean anything anymore.
    My husband is pagan and I am atheist. It was important to us mostly for legal reasons and taxes. Also, we are completely devoted to one another and have no intention of leaving one another, so why not make it permanent (ok somewhat permanent).
    I believe the Government should get out of the marriage business altogether and regulate partnerships with civil union laws for everyone, gay or straight and leave marriage up to individual conscience
    Marriage isn't important to me in the slightest. However, my wife is very important to me.
    It's sacred according to my beliefs/views, so very important.
    It's a strictly legal process, by which two people who love each other can share property and start a family.
    Marriage is very important , without marriage societies will eventually collapse
    It is REALLY important becaus the prophet said that you have completed half of your deen when you get married
    It should be a legal right to everyone whether they are gay or straight under law.
    Marriage is the right way to keep family. Other ways bring weak people with mental problems.
    You need to add some details/explanation to your question.
    freedom me be lived with rules

    How can a married couple of 20 years keep their marriage alive.?

    It was a shot gun wedding but we do have 3 wonderful children and both wanted a family. We are devoted to our family, its just that he's in school and always working. I work. We don't really talk or do anything together but we tell each other we love each other. Any suggestions?How can a married couple of 20 years keep their marriage alive.?
    well problem is that it sounds like things are becoming a routine in your marriage and thats going to backfire. what my husband and i do is we devote at least 1 night to ourselves either something we both enjoy doing like dinner and a movie or something as simple as blockbuster night. take advantage of those times to talk to each other about anything like you just would to your friends. i understand you have 3 children and that may be difficult to find a babysitter but both of you have to be willing to do what it takes for your marriage to survives and your family to be together. also another big thing is the bedroom, take initiative in the bedroom and be the dominating one. something that he wouldn't expect so that next time he'll wonder whats going to happen. it's nice to keep men wondering because they like the chase.How can a married couple of 20 years keep their marriage alive.?
    take a break spend time together do something you all have not did in awhile try something new like when he comes home from work lay on the table with his food right between your legs or better yet give him some head while he is eating his dinner

    Can we get marriage license without social secret number?

    My fiancee doesn't have social secret number..We're planning to get married in church and they required bring in MARRIAGE LICENSE. Can we get Marriage license without social secret number?(I'm a permenent resident in US)


    then where can we go, what is requirement to do?





    Appreciated your precious input.Can we get marriage license without social secret number?
    Yes you can get married without the Social security number. When you go get your licence you just tell them he doesnt have one. Also he has to bring some sort of Id. Government ID. It doesnt have to be american it can be a passport from his old country. They will still give you the marriage licence. It takes a few days to receive it here in Texas so you better make sure you do it ahead of time okay but not to much ahead of time because you get 30 days to use it after its approved. So if you got one today you would have to be married by Oct6.Can we get marriage license without social secret number?
    Of course you can. All you need is a photo ID. Your SS Card cannot be used as proof of identification as there is no photo
    There is no such thing as a social secret number.





    We call it a social security number.
    No, you can't.

    How does the marriage law affect peoples lives?

    Could you give me an explanation of how you think the marriage law affects peoples lives? Btw, this is for my homework and I need some ideas. Thanks!





    Oh and I didn't know what category to post this in so I posted it twice.How does the marriage law affect peoples lives?
    What marriage laws, can you be more specific?





    The primary purpose of such laws are to protect children. To protect children themselves from making decisions they are not prepared to make and protecting children from adults who might abuse/exploit or take advantage of them.How does the marriage law affect peoples lives?
    Because if the Wife was very young and the Husband was a little bit old (example. Wife:17 Husband:37)


    Then the wife will be more active (because she is young) then the husband and can cause a serious argument between them.


    So they can affect both of there life by this situation.And they could go to prison because of an illegal age marriage.
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  • How tough is marriage and relationships?

    Ok, I'm a very negative person when it comes to relationships. I see women as being master manipulators with their husbands, too many want children (I'm the opposite). Women often try to change men. Women are way stuck up on a man's appearance, and most are gold diggers.





    I'm not gay and never will be. I'll just have to deal with what I hate in this world.





    Why is marriage and relationships tough in this day and time? Why do women get away with so much during marriage and after the divorce? Why are they so complicated to get along with?How tough is marriage and relationships?
    You just haven't met the right woman for you. I'm having the same problem as you are. I don't want children and most of the men I've been with want them. I'm not a manipulator, I'm pretty independent and I don't need to manipulate a man to get what I want. I don't want my man to be less than average (Appearance wise) but I'm not looking for more than average....


    I'm not a gold digger because I make such a good living and I've never asked a man to buy me anything.





    So, you just haven't met the right person (Nor did I).How tough is marriage and relationships?
    I have came to a point asking the same question but instead of talking about women I am talking about men. I have been through very bad relationship, seen the worst of men, so I've reflected if there has been anything wrong with me, I think the answer lies in the kind of men I have picked.


    Unlike you, I still believe there's someone good out there for me, to whom I can share my life, after all the lessons learnt, I would not pick men that giving me emotional insecurity as those did to me before.


    Not all women out there are gold digger, master manipulator like you think.


    You have too much to fear that makes you feel insecure to start trusting a relationship, basically you always have the thought that people are after you for your money... please reflect your own personality how have you treat women all these while, why aren't good women attracted to you? Think about it %26amp; start acting positively.
    As a woman I will agree there is so many woman like that. But we are not all like that. Woman that want to change a man are fooling themselves as people don't change.





    There are also many nice and caring woman out there who get destroyed by men. Many men walk out on loving and loyal wives for girls young enough to be there daughters and destroy marriages out of their own desires and selfishness.





    Men and woman have challenges in communication and this can be tough at times. Read the book ';men and from mars and woman are from venus';. This makes communication complex and when people get angry and hurt they get nasty. When communication breaks down marriages and relationships break down. Once the love is gone people are hurt and angry and want revenge and end up being very nasty in divorces. Woman when kids are involved do get more money. If the man ends the marriage as well they get more money than they have earned. At end of day have a pre-nup seriously its the way froward.
    Marriage is terribly hard and not for everyone. Most women are neither gold diggers nor stuck up on appearance. Maturity, honesty and compromise make for a good marriage, without all of those things you will most certainly fail. Too many people go into relationships looking at their fantasy and not at the actual person they are marrying. If you do not communicate and are not honest about what you are willing to bring to the relationship and what you need from the relationship you will fail. If you really do not want kids be 100% honest about it before the relationship goes too far. WAY too many women think this is something they can change in a man or something he doesn't really mean because for most men this is true. If this is not true for you you need to be blatantly honest.





    Men and women both try to change each other in realationships because when you get married you combine two lives into one shared life. If you are not willing to make changes for your partner, you are not ready to get married. Single people can afford to be selfish. Married people can not. Women love security. If you can not help your woman be secure you will have a failed marriage. If you can be honest, kind, compromising and remember that marriage is an exercise in changing your thoughts from me to we... well, you can be very very happy!



    Hi,





    Well in regards to your bit about children, if I was in love with some one who didn't want children I defanitely wouldn't just walk out on them because they didn't want kids!


    But I wouldn't just give in to them either!


    I would try and work out a wat were we were both happy but there wasn't ine person being totally dominant about the siutation!





    I think you made a lot genrelisations about women that were a bit harsh!





    And men often go: ';Women are so damn complicated!';


    But I don't think complicated is the right word. I believe we are more in touch with our feelings and deeper. Not that all guys are shallow and have not feelings I know guys that are the opposite but that's why I think some guys find us 'complicated'.





    Hope this sort of made you hate women a bit less!






    A relationship is as hard as two people make it. Me and my husband just talked about this saturday afternoon. My husband said to me do you know why our marriage is so good and I said not really we just get along I guess and he said because we know how to laugh at ourselves, most people are to serious and negative.
    Dude, my only suggestion is that you seek out a shrink, because you have issues with women that I can not even begin to help you with here in this forum. My guess is that you are the youngest sibling in your family and that by the time you came along your Mom had switched from breastfeeding to store bought formula? If you are this charming in real life I doubt you need to worry too much about women trying to have your children. Get some help, I mean that seriously.... life is too short to maintain your outlook on women. Women kick a@@! I love them!
    wow someone is a woman hater!!!! men get away with so much more than women. men know exactly how to walk all over a woman. look at statistics more men than women cheat...and cheating ends relationships. so don't blame everything on a woman. you obviously have not found the right one for you and you won't until you change your state of mind
    I am pretty easy going. I dont want gifts or special treatment. I just want regular sex, good conversation and someone i can trust.





    My ideal date is a alcoholic drink ad a take away. My husband makes just above minimum wage but I also work part time so it doesnt matter. I am not a user and can help towards making money. My husband is perfect to me the wayhe is. the only thing he has changed since we met is I helped him quit smoking andhe says my support really helped him and its the best thing he ever did.
    Maybe you are getting out of relationships what you put into them. All women are not gold diggers because all men don't have gold to dig but we love your broke a$$e$ anyway. Maybe if you would change your funky attitude about women you might find someone. You sound bitter.
    I think most women have been hurt by a man and try to keep their heart gaurded in order to keep from getting hurt again is the reason why we can be complicated. Once a woman has been hurt its very hard to trust again.
    imagine u'll have to have sex with a same girl forever....


    it sucks
    SOME women are the way you describe, and if this is the only type of woman you are attracted to, maybe it's time to stop picking out the same woman over and over again....





    Ask girls out who you'd never think to ask out. We are, many times, attracted to the same type of person over and over, and this gives us a sour attitude about the opposite sex. I know i did this for years, and i finally woke up.





    When you enter into a relationship, and red flags start going up, get out of the relationship immediately. You don't have to tolerate anything you don't like. So don't.





    Before people get married, they need to discuss things like finances, children, etc. Those who don't, aren't very good planners and might as well be wearing blinders.





    Women (and men) ';get away with so many things'; because the person they are with has set no limits and personal boundaries in their lives and allow the woman (or man) to walk all over them.





    that's my best answer

    How does the marriage law affect peoples lives?

    Could you give me an explanation of how you think the marriage law affects peoples lives? Btw, this is for my homework and I need some ideas. Thanks!





    Oh and I didn't know what category to post this in so I posted it twice.How does the marriage law affect peoples lives?
    What marriage laws, can you be more specific?





    The primary purpose of such laws are to protect children. To protect children themselves from making decisions they are not prepared to make and protecting children from adults who might abuse/exploit or take advantage of them.How does the marriage law affect peoples lives?
    Because if the Wife was very young and the Husband was a little bit old (example. Wife:17 Husband:37)


    Then the wife will be more active (because she is young) then the husband and can cause a serious argument between them.


    So they can affect both of there life by this situation.And they could go to prison because of an illegal age marriage.

    How tough is marriage and relationships?

    Ok, I'm a very negative person when it comes to relationships. I see women as being master manipulators with their husbands, too many want children (I'm the opposite). Women often try to change men. Women are way stuck up on a man's appearance, and most are gold diggers.





    I'm not gay and never will be. I'll just have to deal with what I hate in this world.





    Why is marriage and relationships tough in this day and time? Why do women get away with so much during marriage and after the divorce? Why are they so complicated to get along with?How tough is marriage and relationships?
    You just haven't met the right woman for you. I'm having the same problem as you are. I don't want children and most of the men I've been with want them. I'm not a manipulator, I'm pretty independent and I don't need to manipulate a man to get what I want. I don't want my man to be less than average (Appearance wise) but I'm not looking for more than average....


    I'm not a gold digger because I make such a good living and I've never asked a man to buy me anything.





    So, you just haven't met the right person (Nor did I).How tough is marriage and relationships?
    I have came to a point asking the same question but instead of talking about women I am talking about men. I have been through very bad relationship, seen the worst of men, so I've reflected if there has been anything wrong with me, I think the answer lies in the kind of men I have picked.


    Unlike you, I still believe there's someone good out there for me, to whom I can share my life, after all the lessons learnt, I would not pick men that giving me emotional insecurity as those did to me before.


    Not all women out there are gold digger, master manipulator like you think.


    You have too much to fear that makes you feel insecure to start trusting a relationship, basically you always have the thought that people are after you for your money... please reflect your own personality how have you treat women all these while, why aren't good women attracted to you? Think about it %26amp; start acting positively.
    As a woman I will agree there is so many woman like that. But we are not all like that. Woman that want to change a man are fooling themselves as people don't change.





    There are also many nice and caring woman out there who get destroyed by men. Many men walk out on loving and loyal wives for girls young enough to be there daughters and destroy marriages out of their own desires and selfishness.





    Men and woman have challenges in communication and this can be tough at times. Read the book ';men and from mars and woman are from venus';. This makes communication complex and when people get angry and hurt they get nasty. When communication breaks down marriages and relationships break down. Once the love is gone people are hurt and angry and want revenge and end up being very nasty in divorces. Woman when kids are involved do get more money. If the man ends the marriage as well they get more money than they have earned. At end of day have a pre-nup seriously its the way froward.
    Marriage is terribly hard and not for everyone. Most women are neither gold diggers nor stuck up on appearance. Maturity, honesty and compromise make for a good marriage, without all of those things you will most certainly fail. Too many people go into relationships looking at their fantasy and not at the actual person they are marrying. If you do not communicate and are not honest about what you are willing to bring to the relationship and what you need from the relationship you will fail. If you really do not want kids be 100% honest about it before the relationship goes too far. WAY too many women think this is something they can change in a man or something he doesn't really mean because for most men this is true. If this is not true for you you need to be blatantly honest.





    Men and women both try to change each other in realationships because when you get married you combine two lives into one shared life. If you are not willing to make changes for your partner, you are not ready to get married. Single people can afford to be selfish. Married people can not. Women love security. If you can not help your woman be secure you will have a failed marriage. If you can be honest, kind, compromising and remember that marriage is an exercise in changing your thoughts from me to we... well, you can be very very happy!



    Hi,





    Well in regards to your bit about children, if I was in love with some one who didn't want children I defanitely wouldn't just walk out on them because they didn't want kids!


    But I wouldn't just give in to them either!


    I would try and work out a wat were we were both happy but there wasn't ine person being totally dominant about the siutation!





    I think you made a lot genrelisations about women that were a bit harsh!





    And men often go: ';Women are so damn complicated!';


    But I don't think complicated is the right word. I believe we are more in touch with our feelings and deeper. Not that all guys are shallow and have not feelings I know guys that are the opposite but that's why I think some guys find us 'complicated'.





    Hope this sort of made you hate women a bit less!






    A relationship is as hard as two people make it. Me and my husband just talked about this saturday afternoon. My husband said to me do you know why our marriage is so good and I said not really we just get along I guess and he said because we know how to laugh at ourselves, most people are to serious and negative.
    Dude, my only suggestion is that you seek out a shrink, because you have issues with women that I can not even begin to help you with here in this forum. My guess is that you are the youngest sibling in your family and that by the time you came along your Mom had switched from breastfeeding to store bought formula? If you are this charming in real life I doubt you need to worry too much about women trying to have your children. Get some help, I mean that seriously.... life is too short to maintain your outlook on women. Women kick a@@! I love them!
    wow someone is a woman hater!!!! men get away with so much more than women. men know exactly how to walk all over a woman. look at statistics more men than women cheat...and cheating ends relationships. so don't blame everything on a woman. you obviously have not found the right one for you and you won't until you change your state of mind
    I am pretty easy going. I dont want gifts or special treatment. I just want regular sex, good conversation and someone i can trust.





    My ideal date is a alcoholic drink ad a take away. My husband makes just above minimum wage but I also work part time so it doesnt matter. I am not a user and can help towards making money. My husband is perfect to me the wayhe is. the only thing he has changed since we met is I helped him quit smoking andhe says my support really helped him and its the best thing he ever did.
    Maybe you are getting out of relationships what you put into them. All women are not gold diggers because all men don't have gold to dig but we love your broke a$$e$ anyway. Maybe if you would change your funky attitude about women you might find someone. You sound bitter.
    I think most women have been hurt by a man and try to keep their heart gaurded in order to keep from getting hurt again is the reason why we can be complicated. Once a woman has been hurt its very hard to trust again.
    imagine u'll have to have sex with a same girl forever....


    it sucks
    SOME women are the way you describe, and if this is the only type of woman you are attracted to, maybe it's time to stop picking out the same woman over and over again....





    Ask girls out who you'd never think to ask out. We are, many times, attracted to the same type of person over and over, and this gives us a sour attitude about the opposite sex. I know i did this for years, and i finally woke up.





    When you enter into a relationship, and red flags start going up, get out of the relationship immediately. You don't have to tolerate anything you don't like. So don't.





    Before people get married, they need to discuss things like finances, children, etc. Those who don't, aren't very good planners and might as well be wearing blinders.





    Women (and men) ';get away with so many things'; because the person they are with has set no limits and personal boundaries in their lives and allow the woman (or man) to walk all over them.





    that's my best answer

    What is your opinion on ladies who have sex before marriage?

    Would you still marry a lady who has had sex before marriage? Opinions please.What is your opinion on ladies who have sex before marriage?
    In todays day and age holding out having sex before marriage is almost impossible you need such strong will power but i have alot of respect for women who can hold out and i guess it would be special for the guy knowing that they waited all there lives for you =)What is your opinion on ladies who have sex before marriage?
    well i think men could, but its like this apples are good (at least i think so) but if someone took a bite out of it already u don't really want anything to do with it because u already think that'ss gross!


    I look at it the same way if was important enough to someone for them to wait for me it would be worth it! and its like that other girl said it shows they had more power to them!


    A lot of the times if they had sexul relationships before marriage there becomes some issues in it(some more then others) because of very many reasons: Guilt, they weren't the only one, (maybe they didn't meet up to the other person's stadards), they have bad experences with anything to do with that!


    Even though plp play it off as a casual thing its something thats suppose to be treasured and speacial!!
    I woudn't. I'm not a religios guy, i like to know what religion has to say about stuff and why. so if you study it a little, you see that it makes sense in a way. I would like my future wife to have had sex only with me, my reason is that, what if she experienced someone alot better than me before, it could happen. what if I cant perform as well as the guys before me? she will always have that guy ( and the sex she's had with him ) in the back of her mind. I will never be able to make that vanish. another thing, a woman who is strong enough to hold herself back from sex before marriage, is a STRONG woman, she will be able to resist anything in the future to come in the marriage, she will be loyal to her husband, her kids, her life. Trust me, i'm not just talking crap.
    I'm not religious so if I was a guy then yeah I would I don't see a problem with having sex with someone that you are dating. However I wouldn't marry a girl who had a reputation of being a **** because she's obviously got no self respect so she's not going to have any respect for anyone else particularly you
    I'm certain that most men would. Really, most women have sex before marriage--it's just a fact. As long as you can talk openly about it, I don't think most would consider it a big problem, though it certainly isn't the nicest thing to hear. In this day and age though, it's just sort of expected.
    IMO, girls who have sex b/f marriage have little ';value'; for themselves and are quite uninformed about casual sex. They are looking for intimacy with whatever guy who looks her way and she will do almost anything to get him to notice her. She thinks giving him free sex is the secret to winning him. She has very poor judgment. Sex will not ';hold'; a guy. There is so much that she doesn't know that you could write a book about it. But she wouldn't read it.


    Living together is not assurance that you will eventually get married, even if you are already engaged to marry. Studies, polls, and surveys show that couples who wait until after marriage to have sex are much happier, and trust each other more easily.


    Usually if a guy genuinely loves a girl, he will marry her whether or not she is a virgin, but he always prefers a virgin.






    i am a female, and to be honest i think it just depends on the person and their own thoughts and usually their religion.
    i dont care. she needs to be honest with me once we are together. (married)
    I wouldn't ... No way.
    I'm a girl, 17, and not a virgin. I think it's only a problem when it comes to religion to have had sex before marriage. But religions are accepting of all people, or so they say so, right?
    Would you buy a car without test driving it first?

    Do you need to make an appointment to apply for marriage certificate in Manila Philippines?

    Im going to Davao City Philippines this December 2008 and would like to marry my fiancee. I know I need a Marriage Certificate in Manila.





    Do you need to call and make appointment or can I just go directly to the Canadian Embassy (I am Canadian) and request an affidavit in Lieu of to contract marriage certificate.Do you need to make an appointment to apply for marriage certificate in Manila Philippines?
    I have been told by Canadian Friends that there is no appointment necessary. A few tips:


    1. There is a 10 day minimum waiting period is you want the marriage to be 100% legal.


    2. Make sure you file your marriage certificate with the NSO and the Canadian embassy if you have any intentions of bringing your wife to Canada one day.


    3. Boracay is a nice place for a honeymoon. Stay at the native type places at station 3 to keep the budget reasonable.


    4. Marriage is taken very seriously here. There is no such thing as divorce in the Philippines and Adultery is a jail-able offence.





    Good luck and Congrats.

    Whats the total cost of getting a green card through marriage?

    I only mean the paper work, not the wedding its self or anything like that.Whats the total cost of getting a green card through marriage?
    If you are already living in the USA , the forms of application cost 1365.00, if you came a a turist, you will need your I-94, in case u lost it like I did, u will need to apply for I- 102 that cost 365.00 so you will spend around 2000 dollars , you can fill out the forms urself, do not waste ur money on Lawyers. Its pretty easy.Whats the total cost of getting a green card through marriage?
    You can work it out here:





    http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis click on immigration forms





    application, arrival, adjustment of status, work authorisation, second adjustment and application for removal of conditions - you're looking at over $3400 at the current rates.
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  • What is the marriage is ment - same sex and or man and woman?

    The marriage is for property sharing, to get authorization from society for sexual relationship and share the out come; or to discharge social responsibilities . What is the marriage is ment - same sex and or man and woman?
    man and woman.....sorry its my opinionWhat is the marriage is ment - same sex and or man and woman?
    Churches can define their own marriages in their own churches, as it is any two consenting, loving adults should be able to get a CIVIL marriage liscence.





    Helen K. I happen to think heterosexual unions are...odd. I won't say gross cause I'm not that closed minded. Respect for diverse groups of peoples is what makes America great, but the closed minded minority is letting hate tarnish that.





    Prop 8 was a close one and if not for the THREATENING and FALSE pro 8 comercials and out of state funds I think we would have won.
    ';man and woman.....sorry its my opinion';


    -Sorry, you're a stupid bigot.








    ';that's why I voted yes for prop 8 on California';


    -No, you voted yes on 8 because you are a stupid, hateful, bigot who doesn't understand that rights apply to all people, not just you. Do the world a favor and move to Iran---I hear they don't have gay people there.





    ';you need to have the sympathy of us straight people to get gay rights. right? so stop being a bit.ch. but still i don't want you f--a-gs to get married';


    -We don't want your sympathy, and we don't need it, we will get ours regardless, you stupid cow.
    for two consent adults who love each oter





    Helen K: It's gross? How old are you, 7?





    Edit: Helen, you just did. Dumbfk.
    VOTE NO ON PROP 8.


    Marriage is for anyone mature enough to realize that love doesn't have a face and it DEFFINATELY should not have its limits.
    I agree with Butterfly.... Love knows no gender. Marriage should be available to both straight and gay couples.











    Helen K.........go to your room missy, you are grounded until you're 65. then we will see who's gross.