Sunday, May 9, 2010

What is pre marriage counseling all about really?

i've been engaged now for about 5 months now, and my fiance and i are thinking about going. i just would like to know some of the things that happens. can anyone help me?What is pre marriage counseling all about really?
when people get married who have never been married before, they are taken aback when it comes to living with another person. Counseling brings up subjects you never would ask,because you don't know to ask them in the first place.Its better to ask them now then later!What is pre marriage counseling all about really?
it's kinda a fun day, actually.





totally worth the time and (small) cost.





we did it in a small group.. of five couples and answered some questions... discussed... played some games... had one-on-one time... learnt some communication techniques... you can participate or not-participate as much as you want to... so it's not awkward or embarrassing as some might imagine





it was really enjoyable and a good way to start getting prepared for marriage
You talk about important issues and see how compatible you are with your answers. How you feel about children, family, responsibility. Where you see yourself 5, 10, 20 years from now. What are your goals and dreams? It will give you some food for thought and may help give you perspective on if you are ready for this type of commitment and if you have mutual goals. Be honest, you only have yourself to blame if you lie and it comes back to bite you later.....
they do an inventory and see where you match and discuss diferences. It's worth it you learn from experienced people what to really expect and how to handle it.
Hopefully it'll bring you to your senses and you'll be willing to even chew your own leg off to get out of this trap.
It's a waste of time
Third party advise.

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