What tricks do women use to trap a man into marriage?

I am a 34 year old single guy. I have never been in a serious relationship and I have never had sex because I am shy around women and have concentrated on my education and career. Now that I have a great career and have established myself I am considering dating. I have been told I am very good looking but never really noticed when women came on to me before. My concern is some woman will now try to trap me into marriage. What should I look out for? What tricks do women use to trick men into marriage?What tricks do women use to trap a man into marriage?
I usually put some meat under a box with a stick holding it up. I attach a string to the stick and hide behind a bush or large rock. Then when a man innocently wonders into my trap I pull the string, thereby trapping the man under the box. That has worked pretty well for me so far.What tricks do women use to trap a man into marriage?
Why would any woman want to trick you into marriage? Most women prefer to marry men who want to marry them too. If you don't want to marry a particular woman, why would she try to trick you into marriage?





If your intentions towards a woman are not serious, then it is best to keep things quite casual. Don't make any promises you don't intend to keep. Most women can find men who want to marry them without the need to trick a man into marriage.
Most women won't try to trick you into marriage.





If you have money, though, you're more likely to get tricked. If she's always asking you to buy things, or hinting around that she'd like this or that, take it as a big red flag.





Otherwise, just take your time - get to know a woman as a friend for a while first, and then, once you've had time with no strings attached and no expectations or pressure, if you think she's someone you'd like to date, make her your girlfriend. Take your time. There's no reason to rush rush rush or to jump right into a romantic relationship with someone you don't know well. Pay attention to what she says and does (especially when she thinks you aren't looking). There will be red flags if she's a gold digger.
Do you assume that your such a catch women feel the need to claim you, or just that women are lurking in corners and dark ally ways trying to find a male victim to attach themselves too?


You can't get trapped into marriage.


Nobody can force you to marry someone.


Sure, someone could get pregnant and say that it's the right thing to do, but you still wouldn't have to marry them, and it's half your fault anyway.


Why don't you just go out and have fun, instead of worrying that women will suck you into their evil plans and force you into marriage.
No one can make you do anything you don't wanna do my friend. If you don't want to get married you won't get married. If you chose to have sex with a woman, and you're not ready for kids, wear a condom or don't do it all (as you have been). Find a woman that you're ready to settle down with and leave it at that! There are not magical tricks, here are not special deals or curses that will force you into a union with someone you're not ready to wed (even if you did have a kid with her). Marriage in this country is voluntary. And no one can arrange a marriage for you, nor make you take someones hand in marriage.
Just because you have your career? PLEASEEEE dude! They may want to use you for your money but not marriage unless you find yourself with a broke desperate single mother with kids. How about getting off your high horse back down into reality. Start with that first. Then you can learn to build yourself a personality that will attract the right type of woman for you. You don't need to be thinking about all sorts of tricks women use. Go ask momma for an arranged marriage if your that scared.
How can someone ';trap'; you into marriage? I don't think most states recognize the legality of shotgun weddings anymore. And considering that you're a 34 year old virgin who's never really dated before, I think you're skipping kinda far down on the list of concerns you should have with the dating process right now.
well people who talk about marriage on the first few dates or what not!


like if i was a guy and your a girl reading this question would make me back off from you


why?


because you never had sex and your talking about this marriage stuff!


why not take it one step at a time and just date!





if your this scared about being trapped everyone will be guilty in your eyes and you'll never get married.


so just enjoy the momement at hand and love people for who they are!
Since the other people above me clearly got the ';trapping'; subject covered (there are some hilarious answers on here, lol), not much for me to say there, but what I have to say is whats wrong with marriage? Whats wrong with settling down? Ha, I mean your not getting any younger pal....


I'm just being honest here.
Dude. You're a 34 year old virgin who has never dated. Do you really think women are that scary that they are all desperate to trap you into marriage? Maybe you'll date them and they won't even like you! Your ego is huge for a 34-year-old-virgin.
They'll use their sexuality and flattery to lure you in. Once lured in, they'll pressure you into marrying them giving them full access to your bank account. They'll only do this if they see you as a suitable mate though.
The oldest one is ';get married and i'll let you tap this.';





Also, guilt trips, crying, and acting wonderful until the ring is on are also common tactics.
TWO WORDS: ';I'm pregnant';.... just kidding... stay a virgin until you're married and that won't be a problem and you'll love the girl for who she is not for what she does in bed. Classy ladies don't use tricks.
You lost me at 34 year old virgin. I don't believe it is because of the reasons you gave. So if a girl actually wants to marry you, jump on it because it may be your last and only chance,
i dont know any women who woudl trick someone into marriage - i want to marry someone who actively wants to marry me, an who doesnt need any convincing or trickery!
In no particular order:


Get pregnant


Nag


Ask them what they think about marriage when the man is near orgasm (at that moment they would bark like a dog if you asked them to)





oh crap, that's all I have
WHOA!!! you shook my equilibrium for a moment there.





you're making it sound like no man ever want to get married. no trick there. some men just want to get married.
Just make sure your wallet is locked, and that you're the only one who knows your pin #.





Don't fall for any ';crying'; about money, walk away from it, even if you feel bad.
Beware if she has a buried electrical wire running around the perimeter of her house and she tries to get you to wear a collar.
Pregnancy and the old tireless favorite. Calling you a commitment-phobe. Typical shaming tactics.
I wouldn't worry about it too much if I were you--you're already so defensive that not a whole lot women would want you.
No one is going to try to trap you. You sound like an unappealing nerd anyway.
Basically acting like decent people is the #1 tipoff to look ot for......
What I do is hang a neon sign in my window, and the men come running to me screaming MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao
Um, get over yourself, no one wants you.
Like, she's going to drug you and drag you to Vegas?
trap you! with that attitude I doubt you'll get one to date you
youre a 34 year old virgin who has never been in a relationship? and you blame the career and education? lol news flash people have balanced career, education,and relationships for quite some time! good luck on working out those social skills...








if you arent even in a relationship then you couldnt understand the love that drives people to marry or just spend a large portion of their lives together. marriage isnt for everyone. and you wont have to worry about it because most women arent just going to try to marry some guy they hardly know. youll know when you want to get married and thats all that matters. if youre not ready to marry and youre not feeling the relationship then just move on.





the only way to actually trap a man into marriage would be having kids. anything else is just excuses from weak men. men trap women in marriages as well sometimes btw...
Pregnancy, rape accusations (in Latin America).





You shouldn't have waited so long. Less attractive girls might not make you as hard but if you don't look like and them when having sex and imagine a young attractive girl you can still enjoy it a bit. Try prostitutes, just double bag it. Whatever you do, do not tell the girl you're a virgin. That is a big turn-off!





Answer this-- do you want a 30-34 year-old woman or an 18-23 girl to be with?