Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Can a girl continue friendship with her male friends after marriage?

I am talking abt any hindu caste,whether husband family is traditional or modern.Is there any harm in keeping friendship with males?Can a girl continue friendship with her male friends after marriage?
There is absolutely nothing wrong in having male friends after marriage when the girl truly and heartfully respects her husband. Having good friends doesn't harm in any way but the girl should be capable enough to read her friend's mind and maintain a distance with any guy who she thinks is not proper. Also the husband has to give her a comfort zone for discussing all matters regarding their friendship and he should be understanding instead of taking in a wrong sense. This will solve many issues.





So there is nothing wrong in maintaining friendship even after marriage when both the husband and the wife have right attitude.Can a girl continue friendship with her male friends after marriage?
It depends on the friends, how long you've known them and your relationship. If they are life long friends and you have known them longer than your spouse and it is purely platonic I guess this is okay. But it be in your best interest to introduce this person to your spouse and possibly continue your friendship that way as one on one time is frowned upon. If the friendships are short lived and you've known them a lesser amount of time it is better to cease contact.
Think before you act my dear this is India, where all families (heads of family ) follow some traditional values and customes %26amp; different culture.


I feel that you will get more problems by making friendship with male people rather than you can make friendship with females which will be better. Friendship will some time convert into love or affection, or lust be careful....if your friend after some time being with you and if suppose he says that he loves you and wants u or needs you...


and if he loves more than your husband then what will you do?





so now itself dont make friendship with males and make friendship with females ok
Not if it bothers your husband. Not if you were ever more than FRIENDS. And not if you don`t want your husband to keep old girlfriends. And only if your husband knew him before you were Married.Nothing is more fragile than a newly married hart. Always protect your spouses love at any expence. ';Been there done that';
yes . but she may have to limit the friendship . completely depends on the family she marries into .


If the family is too conservative , she may have to completely cut off the friendship . but that is almost unheard of , these days .
friendship can happen..but u cant meet her alone...u either can call her up[nt too many times]..or sms her[rarely]...actually indian males and hindu's usually cant take their wives talking with other males often...be it just frens :(
There is no harm as far as any law is concerned..


As far as family relation is concerned it depends on how the GIRL and BOY understand each other!!!


Its better to avoid..but there are cases when things go smooth %26amp; well.
In my case, I麓m from Mexico, and here is not common tu have male friends but if your husband accept, there麓s not problem.
i don't think there is any harm in keeping FRIENDSHIP wit a guy after marriage but u should make sure ur husband know about it n he has no issue on it
Only if they are gay.

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