How does a man from a very traditional family stauncher get out of an arrange marriage?

with out being cast out from his family, or hurting his family? this is a very traditional family from southern indian. very high up in the community.How does a man from a very traditional family stauncher get out of an arrange marriage?
I dont see away to do it without someone getting hurt...all you can do is be honest and say its not for you and explain your reasons...if all else fails I guess you could run awayHow does a man from a very traditional family stauncher get out of an arrange marriage?
It is your life and you have to choose weather your happiness is worth risking being cast out by your family. I do not see a way for this to end happily for them unless you marry the person they arranged. In your culture I am not sure if you have had a chance to get to know the person or not or if you have someone you want to marry instead.
if you have no choice then your stuck, if the hurt and the outcast solution is the only way out then just sit them down to a nice drink, and explain to them your not comfortable with what they choose for you. Individuality is key. if they cant get it then disappear, make your own life and be happy for you not them.
I think you should talk to your family...DO NOT MARRY SOMEONE THAT YOU DONT LOVE! because your the one thats gonna have to be with her for the rest of your life not ur family...so wake up and dont give up...do not marry her if you dont want to no matter what! your family wont be mad at you forever they'll get over it and forgive you but if you marry her then theyrs no going back! dont just sit around and do nothing get up and stand up for what u want! dont marry someone because your family wants you to thats dumb because your the one that has to spend the rest of your life with them not ur family!

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