Love girl but hate the relatives, will the marriage work?

I have been dating this girl for almost a year. I met with her relatives on multiple occasions. Her parents and brother are great individuals, but her other relatives are all liars, cheats, loud jerks and I cannot stand the mere mention of their names. Since she is close with her relatives, will this be too much of a strain on our marrage, if we were to get married?Love girl but hate the relatives, will the marriage work?
If you marry her, you will be related to these people. If you have children with her, they will be related to them forever. You will not be able to avoid some association with them. Will your gf be upset if you talk bad about them or try to avoid them?





You should communicate with her about this situation before you even mention marriage. It could put a strain on your relationship if this bothers her, so don't ignore it.Love girl but hate the relatives, will the marriage work?
';Hate'; is a very strong word. It indicates that you will have terrible problems if you get married because you aren't even married yet and you hate these people. You need to really talk this one out to the fullest with your girl. Don't just think the problem will go away somehow because it will come back to haunt you. Resolve it now before you even think of marriage. I wish you the best.
it's not about the folks but about you and your wife. you have nothing to do with the relatives. but when you are around them just be cordial and speak with hi and bye and that is all. it's wonderful that you don't have to see them everyday so just be cordial when you do have to be around them. good luck. if you really love your wife then don't let this be a factor in the marriage being ruined.
yes it will effect the marriage if she is close to these people and wants to go around them and u don't. maybe u need to talk to her about it before u decide to get married. why would someone want to be involved with a liar and a cheat anyway? i would have to wonder why these people were so important to her.
Yes it will. When you get married you are getting a package deal unless your mate is an orphan. You are gonna have to find a way to either deal with the relatives in a civil manner or you need to find a new fiance preferably one with no relatives for you to dislike. How does she feel about your family?
You never think it matters until it does. Be careful. My mother-in-law has about ruined my marriage on more than one occasion and so has my sister-in-law. They were all raised the same and although they are different, there are many behaviors that are 'normal' for them and not for me. It did not surface until we had kids of our own.
if you love her there is a way!!! I hate my hubby's grandma, she is a huge backstabber. She tried to get ballsy one time and punched me in my arm, I filed charges on her cause she was harassing me, I took her help away when he moved in with me! That upset her. We have been together for almost 5 yrs now. See it will work!!!!
That depends on how she see them. if she agrees with you. then you will be fine. if she dislikes the idea of you hating her relatives then you will end up fighting.


I like a girl whose parents i happen to hate. when i felt that she likes her parents. i stopped there.
Depends on how close she is with her family. And if she shares the same opinion that you do about them. If they are people you are going to be with a lot, it probably will affect the marriage if you can't get along with them.
absolutely not. My relatives are those loud annoying cheats thief's etc. Me and my husband have a good marriage. just try to avoid so many family gatherings
Well if you guys are going to move into your own house, then it wouldnt be a problem wouldnt it?
Your not marrying her relatives so how would it put a strain on your marriage?
yeah, if u moved to alaska, lol, distance will work