Tuesday, January 19, 2010

How soon is too soon to be thinking about marriage?

We are in love (duh), we've been together over a year, we are compatible in personality, moral values, but we're not identical. However, we're both 20 and in college. He wants to go to grad school for Bio, I want to be a starving artist or whatever. I don't think about future a lot, but whenever I do, I see him in it. I don't choose my mates randomly, I'm very careful. I know he's the one. Am i thinking too far ahead?How soon is too soon to be thinking about marriage?
WHAT 20 and not married. You are an old maidHow soon is too soon to be thinking about marriage?
Wow, I think its too soon for you to consider marriage now. I mean you say you are both 20 and only have been dating for over a year. Do you know what this guy is like in a crisis situation? Do you know his family? Do you know how he feels about supporting you while you are the starving artist? How do you feel about him going of and going to grad school and accuring loan debt for those classes he takes. I mean I think you will have think about stuff like this and much more. I think a lot more than just moral values need to be covered and the compatiability of personalities. These are hard economic times, and to dive into a marriage when you are fully sure how you can cover things financially and if either you or your partner wouldn't resent supporting the other when it comes ot achieving their dreams, that isn't a good thing at all. So I say wait a few more years and work out some solid plans and goals for your life. Also have a back up plan for yourself, because you never know if the artist thing doesn't work out and you can't really support yourself and a guy while he is in school. So be smart about this.
It is too soon for you to think about marriage. You don't sound anywhere near ready. You will know when the time is right.
Hahaha starving! I love that instead of striving. I'm also 20, I'd say you know when you know.
if you feel this strongly then the two of you should get together and discuss what you both see for your future together
when u are a teen is too soon
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