If you insist your children to stay virgin until marriage would you consider a chastity belt?

Your children also agree with you and like this idea.


Would you put a chastity belt for their protection from premarital sex?


Modern steel chastity belt don't hurt anything, but do thier job very well.If you insist your children to stay virgin until marriage would you consider a chastity belt?
SillyGirl nailed it on the head. I'll wager you don't believe in spanking. However, putting a chastity belt on them, modern or otherwise, is OK? If the child agrees to no premarital sex then YOU have to learn to trust. Or be like the rest of us parents. Teach your children to make responsible decisions. Then hope for the best and be there for them.If you insist your children to stay virgin until marriage would you consider a chastity belt?
Chastity belts cause infections.
I hope you are joking. If your kids agree with you then there is no need for a chastity belt. They will do what is right when faced with that decision.
Your kidding, right? And are you going to stay by their side until the day they die? Making sure they don't make any choices you don't approve of? You sound like a prison guard! One day, you have to let kids make their own age-appropriate decisions. You won't always be there to do it for them. If you don't let them, they'll never make mistakes to learn from. Yes, not having pre-marital sex is a very good thing, and hopefully if they've been raised to believe how important that is, they'll make the right choice. But if you force the issue by humiliating them, you're risking the trust and faith your kid has in you right now! DON'T DO IT
Hope this is a joke....but if it isn't.





Something isn't really a sacrifice unless you are willing going without it. ie. Can you really say you sacrificed a partying lifestyle to study if you moved to a deserted island to do it? Isn't it a much bigger sacrifice if you did it around mainstream society?





Bottom line-if they are physically incapable of ';doing it';, I don't perceive it as the same as if they worked hard to ';save'; it.
No, it's not my choice it is theirs
Your child is ....a child. Not an animal.





No I don't think a steel chastity belt will protect your child from anything other than perhaps penetration...that does not protect them from ';pre marital sex'; ....unless of course you gag them too and bind their hands...so that they don't touch anything inappropriate.





If your children do actually agree with virginity until marriage...then the chastity belt shouldn't even be necessary...unless of course your full of it.





It sounds as if you're trolling..because this question is positively ludicrous.....wow getting started early today are we?
Well, I'm not sure I would insist on her being a virgin until marriage.. but regarding the belt, not at all.





I will say that sexual nature is a very powerful force though so it's very good to plan how to deal with people coming of age.





Ideally, a child will make decisions based on reasoning but sexual nature can make reason go out the window.





A little fear of STDs and unwed motherhood will help maybe.





There are all kinds of things that can result from irresponsible sexual behavior. The younger the person, the more potential hazards.
Thats a scarey question. Is someone looking to justify abusive treatment for a typical problem that all parents need to manage, and that most deal with in a caring, straightforward, educational manner?





If the children agree, then thats even scarier. But then again, some cultures do clitorectomies: apparently, those children agree too (but did they? Does that make it more humane?)
Why are you so obsessed with virginity?
There's a modern chastity belt?


Where? I've never heard of one.
No I would not use a chasity belt. I will teach my child that it is important to wait for marriage, but if he/she doesnt think they should wait, or they dont want to, then it is their choice. And of course I will teach them about protecting themselves using condoms, and birth control pills.
I agree with LC. Raise your kids properly and you will not have to worry about that type of thing.
Hell no. Education is the key and when they decide they're ready for it then they're ready. I wouldn't care if she was married or not as long as he found the right guy who treats her well and will provide for her as well as she does the same for him.
Are you crazy???
if someone does this...are you hoping your kids get married at 18, as soon as they can to get the heck away from someone with such a warped sense of parenting....or do you plan to have them tethered to you after age 18, until they get married at a reasonable age?? your kids need the values taught to them, so that even as young adults they can make smart decisions. A chastity belt is an absurd idea. Is it even legal? And gee, that won't make your kid look like a freak to his classmates.