It's my personal opinion that while you are separated you are still married. I believe you need to end, clean up and resolve one relationship before you think about getting into another one. You need some time on your own instead of rushing into something else......and I also think that a dating site is not the best way to get back into the dating scene.Is it wrong to start dating during my marriage separation?
You no longer need to prove adultery to obtain a divorce so it's not 'wrong' in that sense. But the fact that you 'need someone to help me through divorce' suggests immaturity and a selfish disregard for potential suitor. Generally speaking, it's cleaner and more ethical to finish one thing before you start another. Be a big girl and get yourself through this without using anyone as buffer to be discarded once you find your sea legs, as it were.
In my mind it is acceptable to date if you are separated. Some people like to think that by separating they will somehow save their marriage. To me when you separate it is so that you don't kill each other before the divorce. How can you work on something by being and living different lives in different locations. It's the same as saying long distance relationships are good.
There's nothing wrong with the action, but there's everything in the world wrong with your motivation.
By all means, date! You're going to be divorced soon. But is it fair or kind of you to hook up with someone ';to help you through your divorce';? That sounds very much like using someone to me.
Have you guys filed for divorce yet?
If you both are in agreement that you can see other people, that it's really over, then it sounds like it would be okay.
That or you may want to wait til the divorce is over so you can start with a clean slate.
Up to you though.
According to the Bible, yes it is. If your not religious then you won't care what the Bible says and should feel free to do so. But I think that the fact that you have to asks, means that somewhere inside of you, it just doesn't feel right. I can't tell you which to do, just state the facts.
Yes, it is wrong to date during your separation. You are still married, even though you may not be living together, you still have a commitment to each other.
it depends. do u still love your husband or is it completely over. because you have to understand that if you get involved with someone else and your not over your husband that person can get hurt so heal yourself before you get to deep with the new guy
If you don't have kids involved, go for it. If you do have kids, let the divorce level out before you move forward with any guy.
yes, separate from your ex completely first.
than do any other thing further.
hey
separate legally first too
Get a divorce first!
NO,COS YOU HAVE GONE SEPARATE WAYS
Does it honestly matter at this point.
no
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