Thank you. Your help will be greatly appriciated. =]] I will give 10 pts to the 1st person who gives me a good well thought answer that will help meWhat are five things that makes a marriage successful and why?
Honesty, compassion, communication, separate interests, family/friends who are supportiveWhat are five things that makes a marriage successful and why?
faithfulness
because if you're faithful then you're truthful
honestly in everything that you do.
good cook, most men loves their food delicious.
respect, you should be submissive to your husband and respect him.
love, when there's love there's trust and happiness
1. Have God as the head of the marriage
2.Understanding the Language of Quality Time
3.LUV is an acronym for Listen, Understand, Validate. LUV talk gives us a method to talk through difficult issues.
4. Getting to Know Yourself
One of the first steps to developing intimacy through communication is coming to understand yourself - who you are, what you believe, and why you believe it.
5.Making Love and we do it through the joining of our bodies as husband and wife, made in his image, rejoicing in the delight of becoming one.
I have a wonderful wife and she been a blessing to me
;-)
My hubby and I will be married 49 yrs in Nov. I think number 1. is to show you love for one another. 2. behonest with each other. 3. Never go to bed angry. 4. Always say you are sorry. 5. Support each other. 6. Trust each other. 7. let you mate have his/her way now and then don't think you have to do what you want all the time. 8. Treat him/her to a little extra once in a while like going out to dinner,movie.9. Be satisfied with his wages. Don't complain because it isn't enouth. 10. Learn to live with in you means. 11. Tell him/her ever morning and eveynight ';I love you';.These all have the same why. the answer is love and marriage is forever. And with out these rules, one won't last. .
1. Live on your own first (without your future spouse) before you get married. Learn what you like and dislike. Learn how to be independent. Both of you need to do this. Then, when you are together, you'll already know how to take care of yourselves.
2. Marry your best friend.
3. Always be honest about everything. That goes for money, feelings, things that happened to you. Everything.
4. Find time to communicate/have long discussions about your dreams, issues, concerns, fears, etc.
5. Do activities where you can continue to enjoy each other's company.
its a trick question, theres no such thing!
(1. Communication
2. Honesty
3. Trust (it IS different than honesty)
3. Loyalty
4. Monogamy (different than loyalty)
5. Faith (not in god, in other person)
6. Communication
7. Communication
8. Communication
9. Communication
10. Communication
great sex
submissive wife
low maintenance wife
great bjs
a good cook
Tell the truth, tell the truth, tell the truth.
1. Honesty
2. Communication
3. Support
4. An Understanding of each other
5. Respect
6. Love
7. Happiness
You need these to be successful in a marriage or in a relationship these are the most important aspects to make any relationship successful
IMHO
1) Love, obviously, you must love a person to be able to make a commitment to stay thru good and bad times.
2) Communication - must be able to ask for what you need and be open to listening to what the other person needs.
3) Honesty - again, obvious, without honesty you have no trust and therefore, no foundation for maintaining and building the marriage
4) Commitment - you have to be determined to make it work.
5) Flexibility - we can't always have our own way and we must be willing to be flexible and sometimes make sacrifices for the other person.
Each of the five are tied to each other and all must be present to maintain a successful marriage where both parties feel loved, appreciated, fulfilled and happy.
Forgiveness: When you ask about success, I'm guessing you mean endurance despite conflict. Therefore everyone thinking about marraige is counting on butting heads at one time or another. The ability to forgive has a tremendous effect on marraige. Whether or not one is able to let go of some transgression will affect even the trust and emotions of a spouse.
Respect: Respect has to do with a major quality in the marraige which is communication. In talking with someone you don't respect, you most likely don't retain most of what is said. Where as someone you do respect, much attention is given to the conversation. Courtesy is also displayed for someone you respect and even admiration for the work they put towards making the relationship work. Respect means showing you care in so many ways (not just verbal but in action) and that's exactly what both mates are looking for.
Compromise: You can agree on a lot of things, but it won't be everything. At one point or another, someone is going to have to do something they don't want to, to appease the other. Being selfish doesn't show loyalty to the other mate, and can cause a loss of respect (one of the vital qualities needed mentioned before), but displays only self interest and can be a cause of self destruction in the marraige.
Love: Love is the paint on life's canvas. All the problems that were obvious can be covered over with love. just like you were oblivious to some of the incompatabilites when you were deep in it, keeping that love within a marraige will help you to forgive, compromise, communicate, be considerate, and is a sign of respect. It is the foundation of all qualities and principles needed to make a marraige succeed.
God: Just like you would go to Bill Gates to see what's wrong with your Windows, Jehovah God is the initiator of the first marraige and would be the one to consult when things go wrong. He commands that we keep the previously mentioned principles (ESPECIALLY LOVE!!!), as well as sets an example on how to do so. More importantly he can give us help to endure when we are weak and even enhance qualities we thought we couldn't improve. With him all things are possible, and all credit is due to him.
1)Become friends that will accept opinions and beliefs, even if they are contrary; 2) Accept the individual for he/she is and do not try to change them; 3) Make sure both are financially responsible and not looking for someone to be taken care financially aka gold diggers; 4) Learn to be patient and an active listener, communications ; and 5) Be learn how to deal with unpleasant argument since not every day will be a happy and positive.
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