What do you all think about sex before marriage?

Are you a morally wrong person if you dont wait till marriage? Is it truly right to wait?What do you all think about sex before marriage?
No way, you aren't morally wrong! Waiting for marriage is a bible thing, and if we still did everything by the bible then it's time to burn a bull on the alter to please the lord, yall! lol





I think having sex with someone who you have a long term, solid relationship with is fine! Besides, if you end up marrying that person wouldn't it really suck if they were bad in bed? You'd be stuck with that for the rest of your life!What do you all think about sex before marriage?
In today's day and age sex isn't really considered a sacred act saved for marriage. There are still people that do choose to wait while others make the choice to have sex with more than one partner. I personally have mixed emotions on the topic. I feel you should have sex with someone you do love. Because sex without feelings is rather empty. But I don't necessarily agree with only sleeping with one person your entire life. Having sex with a couple people in your lifetime is alright in my book. Because sex should be the ultimate expression of love. And you may find that when you sleep with someone things weren't what they seemed and have the need to move on. And if you wait till your wedding night you may be greatly disappointed.
Many fell it is right not to have sex before marriage for many reasons.Others have sex before marriage and enjoy it.Marriage is only about a certificate,but why wait for that piece of paper beliving that sex is OK after that ,but not before that.many find out after marriage that sex with their partner is not as good as expected.Those having sex before can experiment and discover the fun before marrying
Sex before marriage is primarily based on religion and old tranditions from back in the 50s and 60s era. I feel that society holds us to certain standards, and if we break them then were sinners. However, I personally feel its your decision entirely. If YOU are ready to have sex and are with the right person then who cares what anyone else thinks. It is not morally wrong to have sex out of wedlock. If that were the case majority of the United States is guilty of doing so young and old. If I am with someone who I care about and love and he feels the same, there is nothing wrong with us expressing that together. It doesn't make me a bad person, it doesn't make you a bad person. If you feel you should wait, that is YOUR CHOICE and only your choice.


Good Luck!
I--personally--plan on waiting until marriage. However, if you don't, it doesn't make YOU a morally wrong person, it makes what you DID morally wrong--in my opinion. Don't worry, you won't be doomed to hell or anything, you just merely should ask God to forgive you, and don't do it again--sex before marriage, I mean.








Anyway, hope that I helped!!!


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I think it is okay, as long as you don't get a try out every guy you like.


If someone is in your life for a time, and a certain time has elapsed , and if it is someone you may think of marrying, then why not? Chemistry between people and sex is some important factor in marriage, you wouldn't want to find out that you can't accommodate to one another at all after you marry.
I don't believe sex before marriage is morally wrong. The only person you have to be true to is yourself!





I wouldn't go sleeping around with as many people as possible but, in the context of a relationship, I don't believe there is anything wrong with exploring that part of the relationship along with the rest.
The short answer to this question is YES!!! It is the morally right thing to do to wait to have sex until you are married. Not only is this the way God wants it to be but also it will save you heartache down the line. Your virginity is a gift that should be given to your husband on your wedding night. Something that you have held and cherished in preparation for your union. Personally speaking I wish I would have never had sex prior to marriage. Doing so cheated my husband and myself of the joy of only knowing each others touch. Any man that truly loves you will wait!! Good luck!
I think it depends on the person. I wish I would have waited, however I didn't. That doesn't mean that I don't have good morals or that there is something wrong with me. If you think you should wait, then wait. It is a very special thing. Many people think sex is as accepted as dating, and it shouldn't be. Do what is right for you.
I have the up-most respect for the Jonas Brothers who are setting a great example by publicly announcing that they will not lose their virginity until their wedding night - which is, romantically, the way I think it should be, otherwise it can be a rash decision that you may later regret. I have a friend who have lost her virginity with someone who she wasn't even involved with though, and it hasn't made me think any differently of her.





Hope this helps X
WOW. Morally wrong?


That's between you and God.





Church teaches it is wrong.





If you aren't religous the it is something that you need to resolve yourself.





Main factiors are your age and how long and well you know the person you may be thining about.





Do you plan on getting marroed soon? If so. Wait. It will be that much better.
well iam a christian and i don't believe in sex before marriage, because the bible says that the bed should not be defiled, which means that sex before marriage is looked down upon in gods eyes because he wants the bed to be holy, but if you ever make that mistake of doing it before marriage repent and let god restore you and then wait til god sends you your mate.
It's different with everyone. With me it was necessary. I can't trust someone that won't, my first marriage proved that. I only had sex about three times before I got married and not a lot more after. I was too young and thought all marriages were supposed to be like that. How stupid I was. After my divorce, my very first girlfriend and I had sex more in one month than I did my whole 6.5 years of being married.





If it's in your heart to wait then it's right. I have a great respect for girls that want to wait. I'd never do anything to disrupt a girls determination. I think love goes beyond sex. Anyone can have sex but not just anyone can love.





My ex was a virgin when we met. I told her I would respect her wishes to stay a virgin and we did nothing right off the bat. A few days later, she almost raped me. We actually has sex 6 times in one night. We couldn't get enough.





If you think there is no moral problems with having sex before marriage then great just please demand it to be safe sex. We don't need any more children born out of wedlock.





Hope this helps.
I feel it is truly right to wait, I think our morals are all so horrible these days, I am waiting personally, no matter what. Now if you are with someone that you feel could be the one, and really think he/she could be, I think it wouldn't be all that bad, but then again, I wouldn't do it unless I were maybe engaged, I'm not sure.
sex is a sacred bond between a man and a woman


it would be nice to hold it for marriage


but i wouldnt rat on anyone who had sex before marriage


i mean its a natural instinct


and humans are naturally flawed


so i wouldnt beat myself up if i did


and i wouldnt pass the oppurtunity if i truly loved her
In the old days people would marry at 12 and 13 so it was ';right'; Screw that not one of the Ten Commandments say ';Thou shalt not have sex before marriage.';


If you want it to be ';right '; make sure it's with someone you REALLY like and you're protected.
I think it is a nice idea but not very realistic. If you are vowing to spend the rest of your life with someone you should know them Intimately.. there is such a thing as being sexually incompatible don't you know.





Put it this way you wouldn't buy a car without taking it for a test drive.
I used to want to wait but I was in a relationship where we both truly loved each other. It was the right time for me.. However I believe you need trust and respect if you decide to have sex. It can be rather painful emotionally otherwise.
Hell no....I beleive you should have sex BEFORE you marry. I wouldn't want to be stuck w/ someone who sucks in bed and can't satisfy me...no way jose. You gotta take a sneak peek before you share that eternal bond w/ someone.





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I think it is a good thing, but I'm not religious. The more knowledge, experience and wisdom one brings to the marriage, the greater chance of long term success in a marriage... provide you don't bring guilt or other baggage because you have ';sinned';.
There isn't anything immoral about having sex before marriage. Times have changed, the idea of a virginal wife is just archaic in a modern world when people are so quick to divorce. A couple needs to examine their compatibility in all areas.
IT IS CONSIDERED A SIN~I DO NOT THINK YOU ARE GOING TO GO TO HELL FOR IT, AND NO I DON'T THINK YOU ARE MORALLY WRONG, IF YOU TOOK A POLL I DO NOT THINK VERY MANY PEOPLE HAVE WAITED TILL THEIR WEDDING NIGHT AND I KNOW SOME WONDERFUL, HONEST, NEVER DONE A THING WRONG IN THEIR LIFE DONT EVEN CURSE AND THEY HAD SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE
Everyone has their own sets of morals. If you think it's ok, and you won't burn in hell, then go for it if you think you are ready. Otherwise, wait it out. I didn't wait, I have no regrets, and I do not think I am morally flawed, but that's just me.
it's how you feel about the person, but i personally think that it is better to wait until you are ready for children.. which most of the time is when you are married
I think long as you know all the pros and cons to sex and you are willing to take the risk be an adult and be responsible for what may happen.





then premarital sex is OK.





stupid and sex are like oil and water, they don't mix well.
Not wrong, don't you always try something out before you buy it? Same goes for sex, if it sucks, then you will know to move on, but if its the best, then marry and then its yours only.
If you use protection, I don't think that it makes you a wrong person. But if you want to save yourself until marriage, nobody is stopping you. It all depends on if the two are ready.
I think it's fine! Do you buy a car without test driving it? C'mon, what if you marry someone only to find out they are awful in the sack! All this leads to is Divorce!


I'm sure even God himself can agree with this logic.
Well, I think it all depends on your religious beliefs. I do not think it is morally wrong at all, but more religious people would definitely have a problem with this.
I think you should wait until marriage. If you wait and so does your future husband it will be best. This way you won't have any bad memories. Also I believe that God would want you to wait until marriage!
Well babe, A guy has to always ';Test drive'; the car before he purchases it so yes, it is okay to have sex before anything.