What should two people know about each other before marriage and why?

Just so you know, I go by what people I know personally say. I am just seeking a diverse range of opinions.What should two people know about each other before marriage and why?
first the cult they belong to, the religion their faith and attitude toward God and the saints and church.the partener should also obey God, and fulfill the comandements. e.g. if he doesn't how could he know that he is not allowed to cheat or sleep with the wife of other man?or that he must help other man..?








then you need to have close tastes and ideas..of life be togheter for all life..share the tasks in family do not put the other to a harder work or a work that she cannot handle or exceeds her powers .





- share tastes togheter about friends house fashion what to wear where to stay ..where to go in holiday..not i preffer at block..she preffers at house..then stay at block and she looses her mind watching the baby not to fall over the window..so..on/...





tastes of holiday..not he prefers paris..crowded..noisy..although she is exhausted by the noise of the kids..- while she preferes a quiet beach on an isle and he never thinks to go there...so on..





not she prefers to dress so and so..and he lets her home because he doesn't want to dress like the women he likes ..





she must know if he drinbks because she will have to face this if so..he must know if she really loves him..or is just an ocassion to marry,.,,





they both must know what the other think is right,,and what is not..





see what kind of friends does the other have and if likes them..see if they feel comfortable with the other's family..and if he is respected by the other's family..





see what the other likes to work and have a comunication on this subject..also see how the other likes to spen the free time..leisure time..





see if the man respect her ot just want to put her to work..see if he loves her or just is a sex simbol to him..see if the man can hold her show love...or is just a will to have that woman.,.see if the man is able to help with the baby and educate him..


because she cannot do all the work..a child has two parentsWhat should two people know about each other before marriage and why?
I think knowing how that person will grow and mature is just as important as knowing something about them on any given day.





Marriages fail because people grow up and apart, not up and together. I think the best thing you can do before marriage is give the relationship time. You may know every possible thing about someone for the year that you've known them - but how will they change in 3 years? Will you still have common interests? Will you mature together?





My husband and I dated 4 years before getting married. We grew up and together, not apart. I'm glad we waited.
Because it's better to wait and get to know each other real well than it is to date and after a couple of months get married. I've been through that road and wished I had waited longer to know her better. Know her better, you will know her weaknesses and her strengths. She can get to know the same about your strengths and weaknesses. Knowing each real well will make it harder to get a divorce. I'm not saying you won't get one but you will make easier to succeed than to fail. I hope this helped you and I wish you the best.
you just ask a quesiton similar to this one.... but if you're not ready for marriage.. please dont get marry...... just cuz everyone is getting married....





you really dont know that person well until you actually marry them.. living with the 24/7... haning out with them 24/7... sleeping by their side 24/7.... and then you'll realize how they actually are.... the way they talk.. how much they have changed... for better or for worse.... if they like to cook or clean.. or if they are just plain lazy..... (it goes both ways)
you have a lot of questions about marriage, and as you are so indecisive i hope you are not considering it, i refer to one of the answers to one of the other questions, whos opinion really matters apart from the couple concerned
Every person that wants to get married should be engaged for two years and be forced to attend relationship counseling for at least one of them.