I would say thugs are out as well as the bad guys.
I would think educated, good career, and overall decent man. A man who is tired of the game and ready to relax.
What do you feel makes a person marriageable?How do you tell if a man is ';marriage material';?
his past and how he treated others he was suppose to love. when a man is overly critical of a past wife or love, and is never willing to take on any of the responsibility that he played a part, he Will do the same thing to u one day. a persons past acts may be a good predictor of what he does in the future. a man who holds a job, has a good character, is fair to others, is trustworthy, a man who prefers to stay in with u and avoid the bar scene is usually a safe bet. if he has job security and isn't always changing jobs, a person who is not addicted to drugs, a person who is focused on u and not his friends. a man who pays his child support if he had children will be the man who is concerned with your well being. a man who is honest and cheats no one , a man who has a strong belief in god, who may attend church, who knows right from wrong. also the man who doesn't have all that baggage of children from other marriages or relationships would be a good choice.How do you tell if a man is ';marriage material';?
Look at what they bring to the table, and what you bring in return. You should both have some common goals that the two of you want to achieve. Find out where his head and heart are at. Observe the little things that he does and says, and weigh them against his basic philosophies.
Of course, there are more, but that's a decent start.
Essentially, any man that is dedicated to creating a solid marriage, is very lovingly attracted to his partner, sincere in words and deeds, and energetic towards setting personal goals.
Only you can answer that.
Good Luck on that one! I would just find a man that loves you for you no matter what. not all men are the same there's some good ones left out there.
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