I do not like my husband being very friendly with his friends' wives. I feel that 1 of them feels jealous of getting less attention after he got married to me. And now I can not stand him being very paly with female friends.It always on my mind.Is it alright to be possessive about husband, especially when he has female friends before marriage?
Yes, it is alright %26amp; very necessary particularly in your case to be possessive about your husband. Your case is really a delicate one %26amp; by slight mischief of that cunning %26amp; clever lady, your marriage can be ruined in no time. Be careful %26amp; don't allow any non-sense of that lady who is constantly creating a dangerous unsafe conditions for you deliberately. You have genuine rights on him %26amp; his body which others don't have. Any other woman in a married man's life is definitely a sign of danger, should never be taken lightly. That cunning lady is VERY dangerous for him is visible from her objectionable actions %26amp; sarcastic remarks before your husband. You have to be worried very much. Will you wait for her to seduce him ? People move slowly to dangerous conditions. Basic safety principle says : Safety first, anything else later. B coz of her, your married life may not be safe in future. You must be strong enough to say tactfully to make her realise her obvious mistakes. First talk to your husband seriously about this.Is it alright to be possessive about husband, especially when he has female friends before marriage?
Since you are his wife. You should be his ONLY female friend. He can have female asscociates but I don't think it's right that he should have them as friends.
Talk to him and insist he not be alone with any female. How would he feel if you were chummy and alone with his male friends?
Being flirtatious, chummy, and charming remains between husband and wife only.
This attitude will kill your peace and beauty of life.
The present day relationship allow casual and intimate mingling among friendly couples.
Be more positive, trust your hubby, and enjoy life.
The whole life and relationships depend on this mutual trust.
The poison of doubting can spoil everything for both og you and the children.
Possessiveness is sign of love.. its good to be possessive to the extent you do not turn off him but makes him feel that all this is for your love.. You can be humorous if things goes ugly on that. make him feel you love him more than anybody and what matters to you is just him.. use that to show your love and not stop him or others on that..
if you don't think he loves you enough to stay faithful to you, your marriage is already in trouble. Why did you marry him, if you did not trust him?
Insecurity and jealousy are very ugly. Try improving your self esteem, or you will eventually run your husband away.
It is good to be a little possessive. But you should not get overtly possessive and don't get jealous and have faith in your husband. Otherwise, there may be problem.
Speak with your husband regarding this and what you feel, ask him to give attention more on you then his friend's wife.
If u trust ur husband then y r u being so posessive? Give him a little space of his own... if it still bothers u so much then talk it out with him but politely... dont make it an issue...
I agree with Apurva.
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